my husband and I bought a Lexus for me based on the fact that he had a company vehicle and together (mostly him) we had a nice 6 figure income; 2 years ago (one year into the loan) he walked out on me & our kids and the 1st two things on his priority list were moving his girlfriend in and filing for bankruptcy. I was left with the car payment of $600 & a mortgage i couldnt afford so now i'm waiting out foreclosure; I have 6 months left in the house and I wont be able to afford to put a roof over my kids heads while i have this car payment so i've taken a loan from my 401k to payoff the car; my question is this: since he filed bankruptcy have i been helping him rebuild his credit every time i've made my car payment & is my paying it off going to help him big time? Cuz if thats the case i'm going to try and refinance to get him off the loan before i pay it off. He's had his cake & eaten it too and I'm not going to give him another win while i've lost everything.
