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sccredit
Valued Contributor

Re: Sell or repo?


@Anonymous wrote:

@Anonymous wrote:

I think for the pricing the Optima is a very nice car and I hope you are able to keep the car and your husband.


His anger stems from the fact that the money I'm paying for the car could be going to him because he was the only one working while I was in school. He expected to be fully reconstitued and I wasn't aware of this until recently. Bitter sweet to say the least. 


That's not how marriage works.  Best of luck to you

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1GaDawg85
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Re: Sell or repo?


@Anonymous wrote:

@Anonymous wrote:

@Anonymous wrote:

I think for the pricing the Optima is a very nice car and I hope you are able to keep the car and your husband.


His anger stems from the fact that the money I'm paying for the car could be going to him because he was the only one working while I was in school. He expected to be fully reconstitued and I wasn't aware of this until recently. Bitter sweet to say the least. 


Wow.  I think he needs a better understanding of the whole married part.  As I said earlier I wish you luck


Definitely needs a lesson on marriage and money


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Message 32 of 37
dabrian
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Re: Sell or repo?

Find a new husband. GL.
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ojefferyo
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Re: Sell or repo?


@Anonymous wrote:

@Anonymous wrote:

I think for the pricing the Optima is a very nice car and I hope you are able to keep the car and your husband.


His anger stems from the fact that the money I'm paying for the car could be going to him because he was the only one working while I was in school. He expected to be fully reconstitued and I wasn't aware of this until recently. Bitter sweet to say the least. 


WOW that's pretty immature if you ask me. 

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Message 34 of 37
Justine_Alpha
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Re: Sell or repo?

actually they both do ;-)

 

buying a new car behind spouses back, yikes.

Message 35 of 37
Anonymous
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Re: Sell or repo?


@Justine_Alpha wrote:

actually they both do ;-)

 

buying a new car behind spouses back, yikes.


It wasn't behind his back. I talked to him about it for about a month before I submitted my application. But that's neither here nor there at this point, lesson learned. Thanks for the feedback. 

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adabsi
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Re: Sell or repo?

Sorry about your situation. Best case scenario is get someone to take over lease. Second best case scenario which most people will and are against but hey its 1 of my 2 pennies in this matter. We all should be objective. I have no idea which part of the country you live. Hope you have GAP insurance and make sure you do if you are going to do this. Look for a tree to park it under in a storm or park it somewhere it will get stolen easily or total it out the next time you see a deer or racoon on the road . And there you have it. Just my $0.02
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