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I would let it go.
You're underwater on it and have no employment currently to make the payments yourself on it. Put the $ your boyfriend would have been spending on your payments aside each month. Buy a $1000-$1500 cash car with it when you go back to work. Establish a healthy emergency savings and get back on your feet from there.
BK is a chance to start over. Don't put yourself back on the hook for debt.
So is your question if you should keep the car or what Suntrust will do? Because it sounds like you've decided to keep the car. Your attorney is who should be advocating on your behalf with Suntrust.