Arguing with wife. Please save me!

[MrShush]

I fired Chase last year, but for 10% cash back, I'd be willing to take them back

[DI]

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@aftermath wrote:

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@DI wrote:

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@aftermath wrote:

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@DI wrote:

It's possible that the co worker is getting 10% back on purchases if she's shopping at stores online that the CC promotes.  I know Discover offer more than 5% Csshback at different online merchants. 

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I know the 10% applies when shopping online through Chase, but she said EVERYTHING.

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If everything she buys is in the 10% category then she is right. 

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She claims no categorise. She said straight out 10% on EVERYTHING.

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I need that card for gas and food then! 

[aftermath]

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@DI wrote:

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@aftermath wrote:

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@DI wrote:

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@aftermath wrote:

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@DI wrote:

It's possible that the co worker is getting 10% back on purchases if she's shopping at stores online that the CC promotes.  I know Discover offer more than 5% Csshback at different online merchants. 

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I know the 10% applies when shopping online through Chase, but she said EVERYTHING.

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If everything she buys is in the 10% category then she is right. 

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She claims no categorise. She said straight out 10% on EVERYTHING.

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I need that card for gas and food then! 

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Forget the gas and food.  I would put the company's payroll on my card!  That would be an average of $10,000 cash back every 2 weeks!

[Anonymous]

you cannot prove a negative so you need to tell her "Well they are not offering it now and no one is offering it so that's life."  It is what it is

[aftermath]

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@Anonymous wrote:

you cannot prove a negative so you need to tell her "Well they are not offering it now and no one is offering it so that's life."  It is what it is

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That's what the argument started off as but it went a whole different direction.  It's no longer about "I want it" it's now "It's real! She has it!".

[Anonymous]

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@aftermath wrote:

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@Anonymous wrote:

you cannot prove a negative so you need to tell her "Well they are not offering it now and no one is offering it so that's life."  It is what it is

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That's what the argument started off as but it went a whole different direction.  It's no longer about "I want it" it's now "It's real! She has it!".

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Then you need to compliment your wife on how lucky she is to have this cat as a friend and drop it.

[kjm79]

Can't this simply be resolved by making a telephone call to Chase and inquiring if this is a card they offer? 

[BoSox617]

Hi aftermath,

This option is rather gauche, but...

The next time your wife wants to make a purchase of oh, say $200, suggest that she ask her friend to make the purchase.  Have your wife write out a check (make sure the memo section notes the details, to CYA) for the purchase, tax, etc. less 10%. 

If the friend declines, that may be an indication that she was not being very honest about the discount.  Notice I said "may" - there are many reasons one might not be willing to do such a thing.

Just something your wife might consider if she wants to keep pushing the issue.  Steer the conversation away from you, and over to her pal.  Hey, you might get a discount out of it (I doubt it, but this route might be better than arguing in circles).

[smc733]

http://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=Divorce+Attorney&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8

[BoSox617]

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@smc733 wrote:

http://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=Divorce+Attorney&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8

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