Jaysdad
I got them as a first credit card in school, and I was a moron. They treated me as such. They reported my young mischief to their three best friends, TU, EX, EQ. They didn't want me to see other people. They would not report my growth. I had them, and only them. We were monogamous. Well I was anyway.
I grew up and graduated from my foolish ways, after a seven year marathon/penance (not a sprint!!!). They saw my beautiful new scores (>760), slapped on an annual fee, and increased my interest rates. I called them and asked them to reconsider. They said they would. They didn't. Another interest rate increase occurred. I tried again. They said they would change. They didn't. I decided that maybe they didn't love me anymore. I tried one more time, after all, we had been together for 9 years at that point. The same old promises. The end.
Chase and Citi are now showing the love. Yes, I'm no longer a credit card monogamist.
In my case, Capital One loved my mistakes, hated my improvement and tried to squeeze more out of me every chance they could... probably the same as most companies would.. but they were the ones who did it to me!
Now that I've learned to treat my cards like slaves they just don't do it for me. And I can tell you they were bad for me. It may be unfair to capone, but I can't say that about any of the others.. I was exclusive, after all.
Ficos 8/23/08: EX 805, EQ 774, TU 768
Ficos 1/6/09: Ex 813, Eq 779, TU 770