I agree. You should strive to get your score as high as possible but not at the point of causing so much stress that you are afraid to use any credit card.
I charged $67 in gas at Chevron, PIF before the due date but missed the reporting date so it reported on my CR. I lost one point on EQ. Yes I know a point can make a big diffrence but I started to laugh about being upset since my scores are way better then they were 5 years ago and my EQ score went up 10 points for paying down my CC.
If only I had gotten stressed about 1 point all those years ago I would not have been in 70k of debt.
We seem to go from one extreme to the other.
1/25/2021: FICO 850 EQ 848 TU 847 EX