I completely understand where you're coming from and I don't take it offensively. I actually did ignore the state of ny on the tax front, but I've since paid it, before I knew they were on my credit report. My fault completely I make no excuses about that, but I will say (for me) these are the only judgments I have.
I guess I've always viewed a BK as a last resort possible, and shouldn't be done lightly, as I'm sure all who have gone the BK route feel the same way. It's a "to each their own", but personally I wouldn't view a person with a BK or a judgment any differently, both are in a financial doozy, well that's what I think. It's just how each chose or choose to handle it, not all folks with judgments are ignoring them, etc and so on -- perspective is what I mean lol.