I am not seeing in your post WHEN you were late-
The lates stay on for 7 years-
They hurt less and less as time goes by- 1 year, 2 years Ect.
It is all about the severity and how recent-
A 30 day late sings really bad when it first happens- but fades quickly after a year or 2.
It's the 90+'s that hurt for awhile.