We need others to help out on this, but...
Your lenders keep notes on your contacts with them. It is certainly no guarantee of future mercy, but I think that your chances for any kind of help would be better if you were in contact with them, letting them know your situation, inside of just vanishing from the face of the earth.
I don't have experience with this, so I have to defer to those who do. I hope that you can work something out!
* Credit is a wonderful servant, but a terrible master. * Who's the boss --you or your credit?
FICO's: EQ 781 - TU 793 - EX 779 (from PSECU) - Done credit hunting; having fun with credit gardening. - EQ 590 on 5/14/2007