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Let's hear everyone's story!

 

Let’s hear everyone’s story about their credit history and how they came to find myfico for support.

 

First off, I am a new member as of a couple weeks ago.

My story starts good, then to bad, then ugly, and now I feel like I have a lot of knowledge about money and what to do.

When I turned 16 I started my credit history with a auto loan from my credit union that my sister and husband worked at for $6,500. I made every payment on time and paid it off every because I …NEEDED a new toy…. I sold the car for $10k because I was cool and had a ground kit, tvs, rims, etc all put on it. I took that money and paid the car off, spent the rest on dumb stuff like video games. I took out a new loan for a $9500 lifted truck. Like the car, I paid on time and paid off before the term. Sold for $9k. In between the sale of the truck, I took out a $6000 motorcycle loan, paid on time and paid off early, ended up selling for $5000.

So, I would think my score for being so young at the time would have been decent.

Now the ugly….

This is right when I was about to be in college. I took out a credit union credit card and was approved for 2k. Then my mom told me to take out a dell loan to buy a laptop and she would make the payments for me ($1500). Also to take out a capone $500 credit card for emerencies.

(so that is 3 credit lines right there….) Here is the rest.

I needed to be COOL… so I took out a 19k auto loan to buy a IS300 Lexus RWD (I live in Wisconsin, and a RWD car is just stupid! I couldn't move if there was a drop of snow)

Then I took out a 10k Motorcycle loan to buy the brand new motorcycle that everyone wanted.

Well… I maxed out those credit cards pretty fast. I paid the min on the CU card each month and max it right back up, what I didn't know was that the dell and CAPONE card was not being paid by my mom. (min payments of like $15….) My mom doesn’t know very much about credit and will pay the bills, but she likes to make 2-3 payments at once, then let it build up again…

I had major missed payments on both and they both went into collections.

My auto loan and bike loan had some 30 day misses because I came back from college and got a job in town. No paychecks between the time to make the payments. I honestly didn't think it would matter because I was still paying them money.

The stupid….

Lived in a house with a gf, the energy bill was under my name…. $900 later with no payment and knowledge of the gf not paying it goes to collections. I figured I would just pay it later and have fun with my money because I broke up with her and now wanted to have fun going out to the bars..etc…

That collection turned into a judgement. The crazy thing here is, I didn't know about it, they said they came to my house and gave it to my wife…. I am guessing they game it to a roommate that was living with me. I had 3 room mates and I never knew about the judgement.

 

Rebuilding….

Ever since I have been building back up and making smart moves. Around the age of 25 was when it really kicked in and I grew up. A lot had to do with a steady gf and motivation from her to be a better and smarter person. Since then, I have paid all past due collections, judgements, med bills, anything that I owed off by 2013. I have not had a miss payment in about 3 years and I am seeing the improvement. I watch my credit like a hawk now because we want a house soon. She has a house under her name now because I could not get a loan when we were ready to buy her grandmas house.

Growing up with the credit I feel also helped me with my work place. I feel like I need to work hard on everything as I did on my credit. I started working at my employer when I was 21 making $16 an hr, then $17, $19, then when I was 25 I got hired on full time with 401k match, and the other perks making 45k a year, since then I have moved up and became a leader in my department and have now moved to a new department making $54k a year at the age of 29. I am back in school to finish up also. I do see another department in the near future where I should be in the 60s. My wife just completed her masters and is moving up fast in her work place.

We talk everyday about what we can do to save more or pay items down to help us in the long run. We both have very heathly retirement plans at our age and money in savings and checking to where we are not worried. Friends and family now come to us to help give advice on what they should do about their money issues. My parents actually are making me the power of attorny over my older sister.

 

The advice from this site and members are only helping me expand my knowledge with the money world. I thank everyone.

 

Now let’s hear your story!

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Anonymous
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Re: Let's hear everyone's story!

No storys? And to think I thought I would have something to do at work today on the side.

Come on people! it can get an all good story, any story

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Anonymous
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Re: Let's hear everyone's story!


@Anonymous wrote:

No storys? And to think I thought I would have something to do at work today on the side.

Come on people! it can get an all good story, any story


I created a thread a couple of weeks ago called Second Chances. I let it all out in a message on myFICO. I was hoping I would get a few replies too but I never saw more than some kudos. Maybe you and I are the only ones on here that went from good to bad to working their way back to good again (grin).

 

Anyway, here's a link to the story I wrote a couple of weeks ago on here. Congratulations on turning your life and financial situation around!!

 

http://ficoforums.myfico.com/t5/General-Credit-Topics/Second-Chances/td-p/3998578

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Anonymous
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Re: Let's hear everyone's story!

I think that my story is pretty similar to a lot of people's stories. I grew up not knowing much about credit. My parents were always said that if you can't pay in cash then you can't afford it. When I was in high school, both of my parents got much higher paying jobs and began getting credit cards. Then I realized that they had been cash only all those years, not because they really beleived in it, but because they probably didn't qualify for credit. They were irresponsible with their credit. Fast forward to now, they have filed BK three times that I know of. They still can't handle credit. So not knowing much about credit, I got a couple of predatory cards when I was 21-ish. I was responsible for a while, but if money got tight, I started skipping payments. Throw in a couple of unpaid emergency room bills and I quickly became a credit disaster. So once I couldn't get any credit, I also adopted the "cash or nothing" philosophy. I only became concerned about my credit recently when I decided to pull my reports and learned that all of my baddies had fallen off (except for a 30 day late in 2009). Now my goal is to use credit, not because I have to have it, but because I would like to capitalize on the advantages of credit. I don't carry balances on my credit cards (because they are new cards and I haven't charged anything other than routine expenses). I just wan't to have the ability to finance something if needed, get better insurance rates, and qualify to buy a home someday.

One thing I would like to point out is that even though my parents are financial disasters, my brothers and I have taken their example and modeled our lives to be better. We have all had struggles along the way, but I think we have come out on top. We all have decent jobs, and my two older brothers both own signigicant amounts of property (I actually rent my home from my oldest brother). Sometime in the next few years I would love to be able to buy my own. Meanwhile, my parents are still struggling and spending irresponsibly. My mother actually said recently that she wishes that she could handle her money like her children, but she never does anything to improve her situation.

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thom02099
Valued Contributor

Re: Let's hear everyone's story!


@Anonymous wrote:

No storys? And to think I thought I would have something to do at work today on the side.

Come on people! it can get an all good story, any story


There are lots of stories here, just that they are scattered throughout the forum.  Some are under the "Credit Card Approval " title, since that's sort of a catch all for success stories and congratulatory messages.  You can also use the search function and put in "story" or "my story" or "success story" and get a variety of responses detailing other success stories.  And many of the stories will be on older, sometimes much older pages on the various forum topics. 

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Revelate
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Re: Let's hear everyone's story!

Gen Credit isn't a very well travelled board compared to many here and it's one of the least "social" of them.   The lack of responses isn't a surprise here unfortunately for story time, it's not you, it's not even this forum, but this particular board.

 

As for a quick blurb on my own wayward meanderings: I lived a cash-based existence till 36, then decided I wanted to own a house, and I couldn't write a check for it (So. Cal prices in any place I wanted to live).  Wound up on Google looking for credit score building, found myFICO, pulled my reports, and then set about learning everything I could.  Still crawling towards the house, waiting for one more tradeline to update before pulling scores and going shopping.




        
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brewcrew87
Regular Contributor

Re: Let's hear everyone's story!

My story isn't all that different.  (Note I am also from WI Smiley Very Happy)

 

When I was around 18, I picked up a couple credit cards and was very responsible with them.  At the time I was a senior in high school so I didn't really have much in the way of expenses besides gas, snacks, and booze (again - from WI, ha).  I ended up making a pretty penny with the old Chase BP gas card.  Picked up an Amex at a young age.  Saved a ton while working in the Dells during summers to take a good savings to college with me in La Crosse.

 

Well....  then college happened.  Blew threw my saved money within 6 months (while working part-time still).  Started having to charge most pleasures in life.  I only really made enough at the time to pay the rent, electric, etc.  All extras were charged (and hey!  I was 18-19...  I couldn't just sit at home in my apartment doing nothing all day).

 

Fast foward another couple years..  All of my credit cards were maxed out - went out drinking in downtown La Crosse multiple days a week for many months in a row.  Over $15,000 in CC debt - luckily no collections to this point.  That then changed when I lived with two roommates and we got the top end Charter cable package (stupid)...  in my name.  First 6 months or so went by fine..  Then the one girl living with us decides she doesn't want to pay for it anymore.  Okay.  That's fine I thought.  We can take care of it.  Nope...  I start having to pay it all my own.  At this point in time the rent, regular bills etc starts to become way too much when you include my minimum payments on my CCs.  Seriously seemed like a very ending spiral.  This dark time in my life lasted several years.  I was lucky to have a great GF at the time with me that stuck through it. 

 

Well in the Spring of 2013 - I finally graduated (yes took my sweet ol' time), got married, and moved away from La Crosse for my first professional job.  Nothing out of this world - about $45,000 a year.  Started paying back CC debt (at this time up to around $18,000).  Within 6 months I was down to about $14,000 in CC debt along with a car loan for $10,000.

 

That winter, I received a new job offer in Madison.  It was perfect.  A jump in salary to around $60,000 doing work I love.  6 months later, another raise to approx. $70,000.  My wife and I have since paid down my CCs to about $7,000 - all currently on 0% APR promos), our one car loan is paid off completely (trade in for something nicer), our student loans are down from about $45,000 combined to $32,000), and we are looking to purchase a home within the next 6-12 months.  We are both in our late 20's, and our scores are finally in good shape to secure a great rate with the mortgage - just waiting to save up a little more - would like to avoid PMI if at all possible.

 

It was a long journey, and while I can look back and wish I did things differently...  I learned a lot along the way and had a great time doing stupid stuff in La Crosse. 

Main Cards: CSR(30k), DiscoverIT(50k), Freedom(10.5k), Ink+(17k), SallieMae(17.5k), 3x BoA MLB(24k), 2x BoA BBR(16k) and probably too many other cards at this point...
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InvincibleSummer3
Established Contributor

Re: Let's hear everyone's story!

I came from a family that was not great at financial management. Both my parents grew up poor, but made a decent living as adults. Then they had a very contentious divorce and for a variety of reasons neither one was prepared to teach my sister and I anything about making smart finance decisions.

At 18, I got a few credit cards and behaved irresponsibly with them. I paid them off and closed them and decided I could live a credit-free life. Which is true! You can, if that's your focus. It's not impossible, and I wasn't at all planning on buying a home so I got to a place where I made enough money to pay bills, maintain savings, and pay rent. It was fine, for what I was doing at the time.

 

Then I got pregnant unexpectedly. This was maybe naive on my part, but I had a good job and good health insurance and I figured I could manage. Funny how life throws you curve balls: at the ripe old age of five months, my beautiful baby girl was diagnosed with cancer. We had great insurance, but in terms of money it was immediately catastrophic. I had to cut way back on work, and she needed specialists in other states so there was a lot of travel involved. I did my best to keep up but four hospitals in three states? The collections just got overwhelming. I had to let it all go, in my head, so that my head was in the game for her treatment. I figured once she got better, then we'd work on rebuilding. 

Thank heavens, she did get better. I got married, had another baby (a son), and then got divorced. I just kept chipping away at the debts as best I could, and also worked on getting some positive tradelines reporting. Her last treatment was October 2006, so at this point all but two of the medical debts have fallen off after payment. (I'm working on a possible PFD for those.) My scores, once something I didn't even care to look at, have steadily gone up. I'm less focused on the score itself than I am about continuing to be vigilant about on-time payments and what "black marks" are still showing, but the increased scores were key in getting us into our first home purchase. Smiley Happy
I closed last Friday. 

I'm really grateful to this forum. Single parents of former cancer patients don't generally get to purchase homes. I'm very aware of how lucky we are. And it's completely changed my view about money & finance. I'm determined to give my kids the lessons I didn't get growing up. My daughter is 13 now, and given that she'll have lifelong medical needs based on her history, it's imperative that she's able to prepare herself as best she can. 

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Anonymous
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Re: Let's hear everyone's story!

Here's me.
I have been on my own since 15. To me it was better than going to foster care. And I still have that opinion.

So I managed to pay for things in cash and crashed on many couches and adopted by many of my friends parents. I bought my first car for $300. It ran great up until I sold it.

I thought I was keeping a good credit history by not using credit. I never had insurance and barely could afford to survive so I never paid my doctor bills.
I never received a college loan because I didn't have a cosigner and I never received a grant because I wasn't legally a foster child and I could not provide my parents tax forms.

Fast forward to now. I paid off my medical debts and my medical judgement. I have one baddie remaining on my credit. I have a good paying job for a few years now and money in savings. I hope to buy a home within the next year.
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