Well you should be prepared to put at most, 5% down. FHA just requires 3%, but you can get assistance on that from down payment assistance companies (such as
www.getdownpayment.com). Conforming will require the 5% down if it's determined it's a declining market area.
To give you a FICO boost, I'd recommend paying HH Bank & the store credit card off completely, as it's over 50% utilization and that hurts your scores... as well as paying down Chase as much possible, preferably to less than $5k.
What caused the late payment in 7/07? Looks like you have good payment history since then, have you looked into writing a goodwill letter asking them to remove the 7/07 payment since you've been making your payments on time then? Was it just an oversight on your part and you quickly paid it once you noticed it was late? I'd try that with the J Crew card, Paypal, and 1st Premiere too... never hurts.
If you can get the late payment from 7/07 removed then your credit history would be in good enough shape to qualify for FHA, and you'd look much better for a conforming loan option as well. Or if you just wait until 7/08 then FHA would be fine, but I'd still suggest getting it removed in order to safely qualify for conforming.
I was asking how long you anticipate living in the condo for, because I think it'll be awhile before the Los Angeles market completely recovers from the down market we are in.. probably 2-3 years, some say up to 5 years though. This means you'd want to buy with a 30-year fixed mortgage, in case you need to stay in the condo to "ride out" the market longer than the 3-5 year estimates going on now.
Last, your debt ratio is still kind of high for a $350k sales price with the $1,500/mo in debts ($1,200 + $200 on your SL's + $100 on your husbands SL's) and your guys current income. Are either you or your husband anticipating an increase in your wages soon? Being in LAUSD I know the increases aren't tremendous (but higher than other school districts), but not sure what your husband does. Right now, it looks like the debt ratio would be around 62% on an FHA loan for a $350k loan amount, and 99% of the time that won't get approved. 50-55% can qualify for FHA if you have good compensating factors (clean credit, larger down payment, reserves/assets). For conforming it will permit a debt ratio up to 64.99%, however you need excellent credit and/or a LOT of reserves in order to do 95-100% financing with a debt ratio that high. For conforming, on $350k, your debt ratio would be barely below 65% (higher interest rates & higher mortgage insurance). Either way, you'll need to reduce your debt load in order to be in an optimal position to qualify for either FHA or conforming... but it looks like you want to take your time, which I commend.. so at least you have a plan of attack now.
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