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Do they usually remind you about your payment? You shouldn't be upset with them when you have the car. It's your responsibility.
you may get lucky and they will not need a second puil. When i bought my house; the first report was only good for 90 days and then they said they would need an updated report. from pre-approval to close was like 85 days for me. I got super lucky
I would suggest that you keep calling until you get through to a customer service rep who is sympathetic and seems like he or she might know how to deal with this... credit reporting is usually handled by a different department and not necessarily do all of the reps have the right contacts
Also maybe confess all to your loan officer, and ask him or her whether it's a good idea to pull your credit preemptively on the 30th (ie before Toyota reports)... that just might be close enough to closing
On the other hand, your scores will take a small hit as a result of the extra pull...