There was some of that for us to deal with in regards to my wife...we are both on the loan, but we found that other than our sales rep, most people, when they were talking to us about our loan or the actual house would usually address me primarily and not her. So when it came time for the project manager to ask us who should be his primary contact about the house, he looked at me and i told him to contact my wife.
In addtion, we switched to a different lender than our original one...and wound up with a woman as our loan officer. And she was great about making sure we were both involved in the conversations.
Personally, I'd rather let my wife handle everything anyway - just let me know when i need to start packing. lol. But she just started a new job that carried more stress and responsibility than she's ever had, and I didn't want her to have to handle the mortgage process and house construction on top of everything else.
