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you can refi.
you will need an appraisal unless you want to pay the closing costs out of pocket.
unless you have 20% equity, you will have pmi. and you have pmi for minimum 5yrs on fha regardless of dti
same lender may be able to transfer your escrow over to new loan.
you will have pmi on the new loan for minimum of 5yrs per fha