You could toy around with things, put more money down/less reserves but your debt to income ratio would be lower... or you could just put 3% down and have more reserves and by having more reserves it might be the compensating factor that FHA needs in order to accept the higher front debt ratio. Your loan officer can tinker around with their system, more reserves/less down payment and more down payment/less reserves to see which one would get you approved.
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