I think the answer to all of your questions is yes.
An ARM is like a variable rate credit card after the teaser rate expires. The rate you pay is based on an index, such as Prime or LIBOR, plus a certain percent. This is spelled out in the mortgage documents that most people don't read when they buy a home.
We're in a subprime mess because (and please, let's not get into the discussion of whose fault it is -- lenders for being stupid and handing out mortgages to people who couldn't pay them back, or borrowers who were stupid and didn't understand what they were getting into) the intro rates were low, and now they're not. Even with the interest rate cuts (which lowers Prime), mortgage payments are drastically higher than they were for the first year or two of home ownership.
I admit it -- I got an ARM when I refied last time. But I got a 10/1 ARM, meaning the rate doesn't reset for 10 years. I figured that by 2015, I would have either sold the house or interest rates would have gone up and then come down.