I think it will be fine. With a DTI of 55% and household income of $63K with the mortgage taking up 23%, and only $100 of payment shock, I think that is doable. It sounds like most of the debt you have is other than the mortgage payment. It is the exact opposite for me.
I didn't imply you were being stupid or anything like that. I did not know the info that you just provided beforehand. I was simply relaying my own personal experience and instances where their could be a problem. You're in underwriting so I wouldn't worry much about the new rules.
As far as the DTI requirement of 43%, I think we are going to see a lot of lenders morph the requirement with their own overlay requirements. There will still be lenders that will approve a DTI of greater than 43% and others will stop allowing. Same with the manual UW requirement below 620. There are going to be lenders that simply won't approve with a credit score less than 620. The new rules will definitely tighten the industry and make it a tad bit harder to get a mortgage. On PBS Newshour they talked about the 43% rule being across the board so I think we will have to wait and see how it is implemented across various lenders.
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