You can actually call up your lender and explain your situation, and ask what they would do... it might take a couple phone calls, or even waiting on hold for 15-30 minutes, but that would be the appropriate route to take.
What state do you live in? Was the 1st & 2nd mortgage used to purchase the property?
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