@Anonymous wrote:
Child support is the freaking devil. I will dispute again hopefully i get this off my report.
As a single mother whose child's father never paid me a dime of child support, I strongly request you reconsider making statements like this to thousands of strangers.
@Anonymous wrote:
@Anonymous wrote:
Child support is the freaking devil. I will dispute again hopefully i get this off my report.
As a single mother whose child's father never paid me a dime of child support, I strongly request you reconsider making statements like this to thousands of strangers.
You may not want to hear this. but even folks doing the "right" thing have problems with these agencies screwing it up and reporting inaccurate information... Buerocracy at work... Best analogy is the DMV...
Intentionally avoiding how stacked the support system is against men... Dealing with red tape is red tape... Some folks want to just get on with their life without roadblocks...
@joltdude wrote:
@Anonymous wrote:
@Anonymous wrote:
Child support is the freaking devil. I will dispute again hopefully i get this off my report.
As a single mother whose child's father never paid me a dime of child support, I strongly request you reconsider making statements like this to thousands of strangers.
You may not want to hear this. but even folks doing the "right" thing have problems with these agencies screwing it up and reporting inaccurate information... Buerocracy at work... Best analogy is the DMV...
Intentionally avoiding how stacked the support system is against men... Dealing with red tape is red tape... Some folks want to just get on with their life without roadblocks...
1) Men aren't the only ones who pay child support.
2) Not paying child support is not paying child support and it directly affects the children.
3) I have joint custody now, and I make 3x what my child's father does and I have to pay child support now even though he didn't give me anything for 7 years and made me homeless repeatedly.
4) My father didn't pay child support and actively evaded it by working under the table construction jobs until my sister was 18.
Paying child support is important, and while everyone can understand people get behind in all sorts of bills, saying child support is a problem and being thrilled to be rid of it in a public forum is just plain gross. You're talking about children that you have had the responsibility to take care of, and complaining about either your inability or reluctance to do so in a way that reflects instead of on yourself, on the agency that is merely trying to make sure that children are taken care of by both of their parents financially.
If you have a problem with the agency and believe they mishandled your accounts, then say that.