So your scores have now dropped below approval range? It sounds like you're both now in a better place to do just a little more work and get both of you on the loan, which is ideal anyway to not have to worry about DTI. I'm in the same boat. My income is 2x my husband's but he has better credit than I do and he has the VA loan ability and I don't. I worked hard like crazy to get collections off my report. Then stupidly I let student loans fall out of deferment and didn't get them back in in time and ended up being late in March so that's so fresh it's impacting my scores a lot. No amount of good will letters have worked for me. I was able to pfd one collection, but 3 others remain and aren't going anywhere. Keep at it, you're very close!