I have paid thousands of $$ on bills that didn't even have my name on them, because they said since we were still legally married. He carried the insurance and he was suppose to pay the kids copays. The kids and I left with nothing but what was on our back due to his strong arm. I stabilized us and we have rebuilt strong. He bared no responsibility other than to pay child support on 2 out of 4 of our children and the one child was less than a year. UNREAL!