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When you apply for a credit card, you can list income of your spouse as your income if you have access to that money on a normal basis. You may qualify for non-secured cards that place substantial emphasis on income based determinations.
Prior to the Card Act of 2009, you could only put down income on a credit card application that was your own (i.e., money that you independently earned). That often made it difficult or impossible for spouses who didn’t work to get their own credit card accounts. The Credit Card Act of 2009 broadly requires credit card companies to take “the ability of the consumer to make the required payments” into account when deciding whether to approve an application.
A 2013 amendment added by federal regulations surrounding the Card Act expanded the definition of one’s ability to pay so that people 21 and older can include any income to which they have a “reasonable expectation of access.” This can include income from a spouse, partner or other member of your household. It can also include non-wage income, such as savings, trust fund distributions, unemployment compensation and others, provided you have reasonable expectation of access.
The law now specifies that your spouse’s income is as good as your own independent income when it comes to applying for a credit card.
You need not inform them that you are a stay at home mom with no independent income.
Is it a drop down list, or a fill in the blank?
If drop down, I would select "Other". I have to do this constantly as my profession is rarely listed.
If a fill in the blank, I'm not sure. but if you don't want to put unemployed, I might suggest "self-employed" or a joke like "VP of home operations".
The implementing federal regulations suggest that you provide the source of income as the "occupation."
Under the rules, the source of the income is legally the consideration of whether the income is "accessible household income."
I would recommend simply making that statement in any box requesting your occupation, as it clearly states the source of the income as defined under the federal reg. See the final CFPB regulation at https://files.consumerfinance.gov/f/201304_cfpb_credit-card-ability-to-pay-final-rule.pdf
That will alert the creditor to your reliance on household income as your source and implied "occupation" without need to invent some statement of occupation that is not really an approval factor under the regs, and clearly then alerts them to make any inquiry sanctioned under the federal regs as to your showing that the income is reasonably accessible.
I am sorry to hear about your daughter, however, this is the most important 'job' you will ever have.
Can your DH add you to a couple of cards as AU or both of you sign up for a 'joint' card. That's basically how I got my husband started.