Hop in! On my way to a 100k!

[IOBA]

Update!

Still doing all of the things listed previously...and a few new ones.

* Believe it or not, portion control!  I actually measure out how much cereal, beans, etc.   What I have found is that I can be full on a "serving size" instead of eating the "eyeball size".   The grocery bill is actually dropping a little bit!

* Eating more beans and rice each week.

* Buying bulk (when it is cheaper - it's not always cheaper per ounce).

* If there is something I really like to eat in a restaurant, I experiment at home to see if I can recreate the dish.

* Making more things from scratch.  In the end, it's actually cheaper to make it from scratch, long term.

* Bought a single serving coffee maker  that uses real coffee (not the premade packets you have to continually buy).  

* Experimenting with making my own cereals (yums!) and with eating things like spelt berries and quinoa for breakfast (way cheaper than cereals!).

* Saving coffee grinds and tea bags for the garden.

* Saving eggshells for the garden.  Other people save theirs and give them to me.

* Buying spices whole (like cardamon seeds, cinnamon sticks) and grinding them as needed.  The spices stay fresh longer when bought whole.  The flavors seem to really pop when grinding whole spices and adding to dishes.

[IOBA]

The official news came down the pipeline – furloughs.  We had been warned – expect a 20% pay cut.  We had been warned – look for another job.

Each one gave us a different angle to “plan” for.

Look for another job – tough to do when the agency has a hiring freeze, but top boss could direct a lateral or a unilateral move.  So not too worried about it.  In this day and age, with all the red tape, it would be at least a 9-month warning of unemployment.  Time it just right; maybe do an “early” retirement.  Can’t touch the IRA’s or the TSP (401k) plans due to age.  Lol – not old enough to legally touch it, but hey, met the requirements for retirement pension.  So we could limp along on that if we needed to.  And with nine months warning, we were taking it seriously enough to make some changes so we could survive on less.  Retirement income is approximately 1/3 of current income.

Twenty percent pay cut.  OUCH.  How much warning?  About 30 days.  Still, OUCH.   I ran the numbers.  It is not pretty.  Remember last month?  I paid off the mortgage with my credit card.  I have been applying nearly everything I can into the debt.  Making record progress.  Along comes a twenty percent pay cut, on top of insurances/taxes/etc. going up 50% and not going to make it.  

I should rephrase that.  We can make it but not at paying the current amount on the cc to get it paid off.  So still focusing on applying every penny to the cc’s and looking at what I can reduce elsewhere.  Stop laughing, because I actually did find a few places to reduce spending.  I know, we all thought it was impossible.

More on this part later.

Furloughs.  Days off without pay.  Can’t use vacation time or sick leave or comp time.  In one word, that sucks.  Means being home all day, which means utilities, go up, and food bill will probably increase.  So I thought about this.  We can’t rent out our space because with the furlough, work says come in and work 3 days, take 2 off. 

So I decided to use up all of those “points” that I have accumulated from the days of travel.  I have quite a few “free” stays saved up.  So during furloughs, I am going to travel locally and stay in nice hotels.  The kind of place that offer kitchens in the unit, or free meals.  I am going to use THEIR electricity, THEIR water, and THEIR Internet.  At the end of the stays, I should be balanced out on the whole utility thing.  Might even come out ahead on the food bill.  They all offer free coffee, right?  J

The travel expense will be mitigated by not traveling to work with traveling to a freebie place to stay.  So I expect that be no change.

Where did I find a way to cut expenses even more than I have already?

1. Cell phone.  Left Verizon and went to Consumer Cellular ($140 to 50 a month).  This is month two with CC.  It looks like I will be able to drop my minutes from 1500 to 750 a month.  That will save me another $10 a month, dropping my family’s cell phone bill to $40-45 with tax.  Have already trained family and friends about limited minutes.   [I have it well documented from Verizon that no money is owed.  So I am praying that I do not have any troubles down the line as many others have with bills suddenly appearing years after the fact.]
2. We use to shower and shampoo daily.  Now that (shampooing) has dropped to once or twice a week.  It’s taking us a LOT longer to get through a bottle of shampoo and conditioner!  With the free stays coming up, starting next month, I will be able to restock on the smaller sizes.  Toilet paper too.  [It took our hair a few weeks to adjust to not being washed everyday.  Now you can't tell the difference.]
3. We have halfway made the transition to using cloth napkins versus paper napkins.  I have already told the family I am NOT buying any more paper towels.  I actually stopped buying those years ago.  We are still using freebies.  Same with napkins.  But as we don’t eat out like before, it’s been a bit harder to restock those freebies.
4. We have learned how comfortable double layers of long sleeves are.  And wear a tank top under that is quite comfortable!  Seriously, the price of gas for heat has been outrageous!  $2.24 a gallon PLUS taxes.  OUCH.  Last fill up was just over $500 and that was to replace a 5 months of summer usage.  We have gas water tank, gas stove, gas heater, gas generator.
5. Saving coffee and tea grinds for the garden.  Same with egg shells.  We donate our food scraps to a small time farmer nearby and receive fresh eggs in exchange.  It’s not a one for one thing or an equally balanced thing, but it is nice to get free eggs.  Basically a $4.99 value.
6. We have made a game out of how much toothpaste we can get out of the tube.  None of us wanted to go dig another tube out of the storage container.  Lol – we literally made that one tube of paste last 2 weeks past the point we wanted to throw it away.  And getting toothpaste out became a two person-sporting event.  Once the toothpaste (store bought) is gone, we will use baking soda only.  Baking soda is much cheaper.  Our dentist said it was fine to use all of the time.
7. Portion control has reduced the food costs.  Some, not much, but some counts in the big picture!  [I still use baking soda as well as toothpaste - just trying to use up store bought stuff.]
8. I bought washer ball and dryer balls.  Family was skeptical, but they can’t tell the difference.  I make an effort to be the one to do laundry.  And every time we are at the store, and someone says, “Don’t we need laundry detergent?”  I reply with, “Nope there’s a tiny bit left.  Definitely enough to get through a few more loads.”
9. Dish soap – something else I have prepped the family for.  I told them when it’s gone, I am not buying anymore.  Period.  On their own, they are a lot more careful about how much they use.  I am often see bottles upside down and/or with added water in it to stretch the use.  Gotta say, I am proud of my dishwashers for doing this.  We have gone from using one little bottle (freebies from hotels) a week to using one little bottle every two – three weeks.
10. Reorganizing the freezer.  We have a little freezer above the fridge.  And we have a large one sitting next to it.  I have told the family I want to unplug the large one.  They are kind of freaking about it.  But I pointed out that we are making nearly everything from scratch now and we know the most time consuming thing is bread and beans – both take several hours.  With planning, we really don’t need a large freezer.  So I have been reorganizing the big freezer (and little one too) every time I go into them.  I have been able to get a better grip on what we actually have in terms of food and raw ingredients.  We have a lot of chocolate chips in bags.  Way more than we need to use in baking, so we have been using those as “snacks.”  We have also found suitable substitutes in the cold storage.  We use to go through one loaf of bread (in a boxed mix) a week.  Now we are using one loaf per month.  The family already knows that when the last box is gone, it’s making the bread mix from scratch.
11. I try to go shopping by myself.  I spend way less if it's just me.

Some of this may sound extreme.  But this is what I am looking at with a twenty percent pay cut and furloughs.  Two hundred dollars a month to pay for EVERYTHING, including my son who is in college and can’t get student loans.

Two hundred a month after I pay the scheduled cc payment. 

My strategy is to continue to pump as much into the cc’s as I can.  The projected payoff is currently the end of November 2012.  One month ahead of schedule.  But that depends on my being able to keep paying x amount every paycheck.  What happens when the furloughs and pay reductions kick in?  Ouch.  I really don’t know.  I do know that I am going to try to put as much as I can – the same scheduled amount – on the cc’s as planned. 

I am going to convert as many points as I can into payback.  For example, two credit cards allow me to redeem points for cash (a payment on the cc).  Once the financial challenge kicks in, I will be redeeming the points then to help pay for basic expenses.

I am going to take as many “free” trips as I can. 

I am going to look at how I can reduce the utilities.  With all of that time off, I should be able to find a way to jerry rig something to use more gray water, right? 

So, going into this furlough and pay reduction, I am doing it with a sense of peace and a feeling of wellbeing.  I know I am going to get through this ok.  I do have a small emergency fund but will not be touching it unless I absolutely need to come December to make sure those cc’s are paid off.

PS – I feed others (friends, neighbors, etc) almost weekly.  I do it because I can and I enjoy sharing what I have.  One of those neighbors (retired) has already informed me that she will make sure my family and I are feed during the tough times.  She said it is the least she can do after all the times we have fed her.  I don’t expect more people to come out of the woodwork, but I do hope that people will pull together to share what they do have and to help others in need.

[Shogun]

What an inspirational post.  I'm going to make my family read that tomorrow.  I applaud you for your efforts to live financially sound.

Here is my household.

I come home from work, I work 48 hour shifts.  Walk in the house, wife's at work, kids at school.  Every light in the house is on.  Even in the garages.  TV's are still on, computers are all on.   I spend the first 10 minutes going from room to room turning off lights, TV's, ceiling fans, etc.  Heat is turned up to around 80 so I have to turn that down. 

After school kids come home, I have 2 teenage children, 13 year old girl and 17 year old boy.  Son comes home with his friends, they hit the fridge.  Looks like they haven't eaten in days.  Now he drags home at least 3 kids, sometimes up to 8 or so.  And they all have to eat here.  Now they go to the living room.  They turn the TV on, and 3 different computers and then drag out laptops and drain the bandwidth so nothing hardly works.  Streaming movies, games, music.  I have a 150 GB cap monthly and then I have to pay extra.  I always pay extra.  

These kids don't go home, they stay here.  So I have to feed these kids every night.  2 of the kids haven't went home in months.  So we feed them, wash their clothes, etc.  And on the weekend he has about 6 or so stay at night.  My food bill is ridiculous.

My daughter either drags her friends home or she wants to go out somewhere every night.  I call her "Princess 40 dollars" because everytime I come home she needs 40 dollars for something. 

I love the DW but I think she can't help herself.  I'm afraid to say anything about being low on money, because whenever I do she spends more.  I guess if we're running low she wants to make sure she gets what is left or something.

I sometimes am at a loss at all this.  I can't spend any money.  I talk myself out of anything.  I tell them this isn't working out, I have all these people figuring out how to spend money and only one that is trying to make money.  Now my DW does have a job, but it doesn't make anywhere near what I make.  I know better than to bring that subject up, but I think she should help.

I make a good salary, but they are going even beyond that.  And when I finally get enough and say something about it, I'm the bad guy.

I'm afraid it's going to take something drastic to get their attention, and that day is coming close.  When they come in and all the phones are turned off, the internet is off and I've pulled the breakers to half the house and seperated the accounts.  Hate that it would have to come to that, but no one will listen.

Rant is over,  

[IOBA]

I am glad the post was inspiration to you.   Please let me know if I can help you tame the bills.  It takes a little body armour, a lot of determination, but you can take control of the situation.

Do you want suggestions to curb the teens and the wife?

I drove my family nuts by unplugging everything!  I literally will check to make sure things are unplugged.   And if they weren't, I would unplug them myself.  But I tell you, I saw a $14 a month drop in the electric bill from unplugging my roomies computer back in the super early days.  After that experience, I was convinced that unplugging everything not in use (within reason) makes a HUGE difference on the electric bill.  And it does.   

Washing machine - unplugged.

Dryer - unplugged.

Microwave - unplugged.   <--- this is something we use daily, but you know how lazy people can be,  so sometimes, it didn't get used.

Computers - unplugged.

Lamps - unplugged except for the one on the timer.

Internet - the surge protector gets turned off unless the net is in use.     

Coffee maker - unplugged.  

Stove - stays plugged in.

Water heater - I compromised.  At our last place, it was a gas water heater.  I had it on "warm".  Since the water doesn't get super hot and it runs out, people take shorter showers.  At the house we just bought, I converted to a tankless water heater from an electric water heater.  In the beginning, I made sure it was unplugged from the wall.  I stopped doing that, but make sure that the water heater is turned off.  If we are gone for 24 hours or more, the breaker is shut off.

I worked hard to identify vampire lights and get rid of them.  

The breaker box.  I loved doing this.     When the box was upgraded, the electrician failed to label or to accurately label all of the breakers.  So all of them were turned off.  I figured out which one was the fridge, labeled it, turned it on, and put tape over the breaker so no one turns it off.

Found the furnace one, labeled it, and the majority of the time it's off.

The rest of the breakers - unless I know exactly what it goes to, it stays off.  Amazingly, only 4 breakers stay on all the time.  And they are correctly labeled.

The dryer for the breaker is actually taped in the off position.  So is the dedicated breaker for the shed.  So is the dedicated breaker to the a/c.

I still cringe when lights are left on.  We have been switched over to the LED lights and to the other energy saving bulbs.  I tell you, I have noticed that people have decided that they do not want to wait for the light bulb to "warm" up.     So they will dash in and dash out of a space without turning on a light.  

Food - I did a couple of things with the kids.  

1.  Planned the big get togethers.  Kids hated talking about it in advance, but it was much better to indulge mom in private than have mom interrupt the group to talk food.  So one of two things would happen...A)  they kids would know in advance that they were going to order pizza and needed to chip in money or b) I would give teen $20 and say make it last.

2.  I cooked a lot of things from scratch.  So there would be a big pot of chili or beans or soup that they could help themselves to.  The kids knew that any homecooked food was free to take.   There was literally no prepackaged food here, like chips.

3.  I had "weird" food that I would encourage the kids to try.  Like cheese made from rice.  Like tomato sauce made from beets and carrots.

4.  I encouraged kids to bring their own food and to help plan food at my house.

Just some of the things I did with teens.

[IOBA]

Update!

I have actually started to write an update several times, but was waylaid.

I am so excited to say that my mortgage is paid off!  Yeah, I know, I bought the house in June 2012.  I know I took a HUGE risk moving the mortgage balance to two credit cards with a zero percent balance transfer offer, zero fees, for x amount of months. 

I will tell you, on paper, BEFORE I did the transaction, I wasn’t sure if it was reasonable/doable.  But I also know from experience that I CAN do what on paper looks impossible.  I had talked to the family, we were all on board with this, and we went for it.

On paper, my mortgage moved to the credit cards was going to be paid off in January 2014 (still within the “free” time period).  Both cards have been paid off.

How’d I do it?

• Every time I have enough points to trade in for a statement credit, I did it.
• I stuck to my guns about paying off the cc every payday.  Period.  This week’s payday will be the exception.  The bill is not due until May 31, 2013 – I have two more paydays before then.  *** I strongly recommend you know your due dates AND your billing/statement end dates.  They are different and usually have about five days between.
• I called up another one of my cc and asked for a credit limit increase (received one for about 5k) AND asked that my due date be changed.  I am now using that cc (which does have cash back rewards too) and the due date for things I am charging now is June 6, 2013.  I will have two more official paychecks, collected rent, and received some misc reimbursements by then.  So paying it off will not be a problem.
• I went to my credit unions and banks and asked to cash out my CD’s and for them to waive the fees.  It hurt to do this, but hey, it was my emergency money and I felt this was appropriate.  We are facing pay cuts and furloughs.  I want to enter the reduced paycheck phase with no debt hanging over my head.  Things are tough enough.  In an ironic move, most of the CU’s and the  banks did release the funds without a fee.  Only one bank, which said they were waiving the fees, actually charged me the fees.  I will be talking to them soon.
• I have an ideal “budget.” Then I have my “really” budget.  I have it planned 3 pay periods at a time.  I am consistently tweaking it as I remember something or as I make a change.  For example, I have a $48 reimbursement coming in Monday.  It’s not in the budget, so I will apply it towards paying back some of the accounts I raided. 
• Oh yeah, I forgot to mention I “raided” several bank accounts, to include my kids.  Bear with me now.  You should hear the story before you judge.  I had set aside mula into a CD for my oldest for when she graduated from college.  Gave her a graduation card with a penny in it and a note – “A penny for your thoughts.  Let’s talk about your graduation gift.”  In short, her reply was that she would not be manipulated into talking to me.  Ok, fine.  I held onto that money (which had grown to about $475) for what, a total of like 7 yrs.  She’s still not talking to me (how dare I claim her as a dependent while she is in college and NOT paying her way??).  That CD was finally cashed out and applied to the cc.  My son had close to $450 in his CD account.  Gave him a penny, and waited.  Well, life just got in the way and I haven’t seen him since he graduated from college.  He lives in another state.  So that CD was cashed out and put on the balance.  I have done the same for my nephew for his high school graduation.  It looks like he’s not graduating and we have no way to reach him.  His dad considers it to be a betrayal if his son talks to us.  His mom forbids it.  Ok, whatever.  I cashed out his CD and applied it to the balance.  My youngest son is a freshman in college.  He actually had some money saved and gave me permission to borrow from his accounts.  I collected about $417 from him.  When the news of the furloughs hit, he actually pounded the pavement really hard to find two paycheck jobs.  I hate that he’s working two jobs, but he’s determined to make it on his own and not burden me during rough times.  (Bless his heart!)  
• The other raiding I did.  Each paycheck, without fail, I set aside x amount of money for life insurance payments, property taxes, and insurance.  I also have a “reserve” account for maintenance and minor/major repairs.  I have been pretty darn good about keeping the accounts properly funded.  Well, I did the math projections and realized that I could pull from the accounts now, pay the cc balance off, and still have enough time to repopulate the accounts before the next set of bills are due!  Whew
• We are doing a few more community meals with neighbors.  They know things are tough right now (financially) but have said we have fed them for a long time (a little something here and there, almost weekly for some, monthly for others) they are returning the karma. 

On a sad note, my dear husband actually sabotaged my efforts.  I had a plan to have everything paid off by May 2, 2013.  (I know, this is April 18, 2013 – just a tad two weeks earlier than scheduled.)  He just had to have some snack foods and just had to eat out and just had to make an eye appointment for next week.  We have to pay cash for the eye appointments.  DH’s attitude is not to rush things along with paying off the cc because we still have time under the zero percent window.  He doesn’t get it.  I get that he doesn’t get it.  It’s freedom from the debt and the pressure of figuring out how to make things work when there is less money coming in.

He came home from work today and I said we are going out to eat to celebrate.  On a piece of paper I had written, “It’s done! J”  He didn’t get it.  I just let it pass.  Eventually, it will either click OR he will ask again how we are doing with the debt.  I don’t play mind games, so he knows he’s safe.  And he said he didn’t get the message on the paper which he read at dinner.  That’s ok.  I know I did a good job.  J

Despite the excitement of getting the balances paid off today, we still have a struggle ahead.  I have to pay back the accounts we borrowed from and repopulate the CD’s I drained.  (For the CD’s at Navy, I left the bare minimum in the account so the CD is still active.)

I can tell you I feel 100% relieved that the mortgage/cc balances are paid off.  And I will be resting a bit easier when I repay the accounts I borrowed from.

The next update will be interesting!

[Adalen]

I'm still amazed!  Congratulations on all that hard work!

I've just purchased a house and will be trying to save as much money as I possibly can!

[IOBA]

Another update...

*the house we bought last June is and has been completely paid off.  We managed to do that before furloughs hit.  (yeah!!)  

* we borrowed money from credit cards halfway through the furlough to do some much needed work on the house we had bought.  Zero percent interest, will be paid off before the promo term expires.

* the CD's I bought every payday for more than a year?  They keep rolling over.  During the furlough, I had the cd's set up to continue to roll over, but to deposit all the interest back into checking.  It isn't much, but it has helped out.

* the liquid soap we get as gifts or at hotels, I put into my soap [pump] bottles and water them down.  The soap still lathers up and still smells nice and still cleans.

* wearing out the clothes until they have to be thrown out.  My belt of 7 years was finally tossed.  I still have one more that is in pretty bad shape, but I will use it until I can not no longer get it to buckle.

* took in my jeans to get repaired ($5 cost, the jeans cost $7 a year ago).

* took in dh's work shoes to get resoled ($69 cost, shoes are 8 years old+?)

* grew a garden.  Shared with neighbors.  Got a few good meals out of the garden.

* ya know those really weird foods that just sit around at the grocery store?  No one knows what they are or what to do with them?  I am not afraid to ask if the food is edible and how you cook it.  At Whole Foods, asked an employee.  Bless his heart.  I am not sure how long he has   been in the US, but he immediately recognized the long squash, his eyes lit up, and he said, "Oh yes, you can eat.  Very good!"  He didn't know what it was called, but he knew it was good eats.  So we bought one.  Took it home.  Used the machete to cut it open, saved the seeds, cooked the squash, made 10 quarts of soup from it.  Cost - $5 for the banana squash, $4 for the coconut milk = $9 for 10 quarts of soup.  We   will eat the soup as soup and we will add it to pasta.  Hhhmmm...wonder if I could add beans and meat and make it a chili??  [I added 3 quarts of deer broth.  Nothing else.]

* I save the envelopes that come in the mail with statements, advertisements, etc.  I use the envelopes as note paper and to mail letters in.

* the old pillowcase that has fatigue caused damage?  Going to wash it, cut it into squares.  If I ever figure out how to use my $12.50 sewing machine (got it on sale) I will sew the edges.  It will be used for handkerchiefs.

* 90% away from paper products.  I don't buy them.  We use cloth for many of those things.

* chased down our cell phone bill - for two phones - down to $40 a month.  This month, it might actually come out at $35.

* DH's old work clothes - shirts that have become too worn to be worn to work migrate to my side of the clothes to become my knock around clothes.

We are getting ready to buy another property.  Mainly so we can raise some of our own meat.  That endeavor, will put us a bit behind on our quest to save a 100 grand in the personal savings.

Somewhere along this journey, we accidentally became millionaires. It was a shock to us.  We didn't know it.  Someday, we had hoped to achieve that.  Someday is a long ways away.

We discovered it when I had to tally up our "assets" for a home loan.  The lender insisted we include our paid for vehicles, our paid for properties, our retirement accounts, our CD's, and reserve accounts.  (Thank goodness they didn't want us to include jewelry and furniture!)  I told the lender no.  The lender said I had too.  So reluctantly, I looked up the blue book value for the vehicles and put down the "good" valued price.  I looked up the market price on our properties.  Went a bit low on those too.  Added up the actual accounts.  All together, after you subtract the debt, we are millionaires.  

Doesn't feel like it.  We still scrimp and save and chase down pennies.  We pick up pennies in the parking lots too!

And we keep our feet to the ground.  We know that it's only on paper.  The value of what stuff is not so much what a book or  website says it is - it's what people would pay us for it.  

So in our minds, the only "assets" we have is what we have as cash/cd's in the bank.  And that works for us.

******

We don't make a ton of money.  Our last two paychecks [net] before gov't shutdown - 1 penny and zero/nothing.  Our next paycheck should be nice because it should include some back pay from the shut down.  Not sure how much will squeeze through after taxes, but we will see.  The plan with the extra is to apply it to one of the cc's.  (Which will be paid off in full before the promo rate expires.)

[IOBA]

PS - DH and I are going out to celebrate tonight.  Not sure what we are celebrating.  But hey, I have a couple for a free appetizer.  And we share an entree...so I will literally come home with 3 extra meals tonight!

After the purchase, and after the dust settles down, I am sure there will be more updates.  I have already done a 2014, paycheck by paycheck, budget.  There looks like there will be some wiggle room to save some money.  But ya never know.  But I am grateful that I have 26+ cd's, even though most are at a $100 each, cuz there's my emergency cash.

[Startome]

Reading this topic, is encouraging. I know you guys both work, and you guys definitely have more income than I do, but you're choosing to live particularly, choosing to save and be frugal. It's very encouraging. I live much how you guys do, 14K a year post-tax income, rent is 600 a month, so life is tight. I'm actually probably going to steal and idea or two from you if that's ok

My regular diet is Raman, cans of soup, hotdogs, corndogs, 60 cent giant muffins (LOVE these they're so moist! They make a great breakfast too).

Sam's club works some wonders for bulk prices, I'm not sure if you guys have one in the area or not, or if you already said any of this stuff (It was a long post to read, I'm pretty sure I failed to remember it all, lol). And where do you get a lot of your coupons? =)

Oh my turn, lol
*Might finally throw out some 5+ year old pairs of shoes and buy a new pair, They make my feet problems worse so it's a necessary expense!

*Gonna start buying some eggs again soon, nutritious and cheap =)

*Car died for the second time in 30 days, last time it was a fuel pump going out, this time not sure what it was, but my dad owns a business and fronted the money to the repair person and I'm working it off helping his business out from time to time.

*I was able to save up about 1K to put towards medical stuff, that helped a lot this year. Setting aside whatever you can when you can really helps a lot, even the 50 cents at a time things you mentioned earlier.

*I also donate plasma on a regular basis, that helps bring in little 25 dollar increments, it can go a long way

[KoolDev]

Amazing and inspiring !  A lot of the things you talked about reminded me of how I was raised.  Daddy (and the rest of us) used moist wash clothes instead of napkins.  Well dad of course used a hand towel lol.   Tea bags were used twice.  Bathwater was used twice, except for dad.  The toilet only got flushed if you went #2.  During the summer, buckets were set at the corner of the roof edges.  The water was used to fluch the toilets.  Had a well for water and during the hottest months it would run dangerously low.

I dont do all of those now.  But i still make meals from scratch.  My family would cringe at a 15 bean soup.  Little hamhock and bacon in it, they loved it.  $3.00 bucks to feed a family of 4 lol.  Only two lights stay on at the house at one time.  Ima stickler about a light being left on.  The hot water is cut off at the washing machine.  My light bill was only 88 bucks last month and i hope the end of OCt thru most of November is cheaper. 

I did spend a lot of money in June, remodeled the interior.  Biggest cost was the a/c system.  Before the a/c system, insulation etc, my light bill was 266 a month for two months straight.  the highest it has been was 119.00 two months ago.

Those little things make others go a long way!  Congrats on the awesome journey and sacrifices that you made to make your future a secure one !