i should hope you find a wife that will be able to help in that department not that its necessary, but i think it would help bring something to the table so YOU know she is not just using YOU for what you can provide for her as some men love to argue that but yet make themselves be the bread winner and the only source of income and round and round that goes...until i saw that if i wanted to do things had to do them myself and the struggle is not so bad at all much harder to struggle still and have someone else to look down on me although we always have a boss but when its not the one who is used to being the head of the relation or even carrying a relationship to begin with the woman has to distribute the relationship evenly to show the man how it works because he does not have to take on every single thing alone that is what you have a partner for and you never know how buisness minded or smart at managing other things she may be you can always teach her to do what you do be like you. That is what a person will do for a woman when they truly love her i believe. In my case, it has given me sooo much that i could never pay it back with anything material because its priceless and its the ability that you are giving and that helps the woman for the rest of her life JUST IN CASE BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO BE THERE so think on that buddy!! 
trust is necessary to be willing to open up 50% of what makes you and feel able to know that person is who they proved to be at the end or you are screwed...NO CHANCE AT TAKING RISKS AND NO CHANCE OF GETTING WHAT YOU REALLY WANT ...
My soon to be fiance has a MUCH better credit score than I do. By at least 200 points. However, she's there to help me get back on track and, as such, I consider her the standard that I need to meet and personally, surpass. I don't consider her to be a "breadwinner", but we split costs where we can and support each other.
We compliment each other and realize that my currents scores are going to get better over time. If anything, she has been my greatest supporter and cheerleader.
With that said, she doesn't make me feel inadequate, but she does like to know where I stand with my finances so that she knows where my money goes and offers recommendations about what I should do with it.
We compliment each other and realize that my currents scores are going to get better over time. If anything, she has been my greatest supporter and cheerleader.
With that said, she doesn't make me feel inadequate, but she does like to know where I stand with my finances so that she knows where my money goes and offers recommendations about what I should do with it.
My gf is way better than mine. And for that reason EVERYTHING is in her name.. the car, the lease to the apt, about 5 store credit cards, the electric bill, and the cable bill. It kind of sucks... but honestly having to ask her to app everything for us is the reason I am on these forums scouring for information to rebuild... and so far it is working! (i think)
@ravaage wrote:My gf is way better than mine. And for that reason EVERYTHING is in her name.. the car, the lease to the apt, about 5 store credit cards, the electric bill, and the cable bill. It kind of sucks... but honestly having to ask her to app everything for us is the reason I am on these forums scouring for information to rebuild... and so far it is working! (i think)
I am sure she doesn't use that against you! Keep up the good work!
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@Anonymous wrote:When the wife and i first met, she had wayyyy better credit than me, but had issues with keeping balances low.
Our credit isn't that far apart anymore. I'm 640-678, She's 676-703.
Score drop mostly due to lots of new credit.
Is there gardening time in your near future? May want to let inquirys and new accounts age off.
You must be crazy! 