Today I over heard this in person. Who's fault is it?
The healthy spouse keeps repeating to the medically ill spouse it's all your fault our credit is bad. Look what you are doing to this relationship. I'm having a hard time seeing it from the healthy spouse's side.
The healthy spouse says I'm allowed to be upset because your condition is hurting me too. So the the healthy spouse is taking it out on the ill spouse. And the blame game goes on.
I feel bad when I see this. I don't understand why people get this way.
Message Edited by ilovepizza on
09-15-2008 03:32 PM