06-06-2012 04:00 AM - edited 06-06-2012 04:02 AM
When traveling in the car, sometimes I open the passenger door for my wife, sometimes not. If I am entering a building, I open the door for her to walk inside and then enter behind. I don't usually hold the door for people walking behind me, unless they are immediately behind me and we are both at the door anyway.
Personally, I don't like it when someone who is more than a few paces in front of me pauses at the door and holds it open waiting for me to get there. I am a soldier in the United States Army. I can open the door myself, thank you.
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06-06-2012 04:04 AM
If they are hot, then yes.
If they are not, then no.
If they are old, then yes.
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bribro wrote:Almost always, yes. I had an ex girlfriend that would get mad at me for doing it, claiming I was flirting with them. And that's part of the reason why she's my ex.
Jealousy is such an ugly emotion.
06-06-2012 07:15 AM
Ever get that one female who said: "I can open my own door."
Doesn't that just make your day?
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06-06-2012 09:39 AM
Yeah and they usually say it oh so rudely.... after they have walked through the open door ![]()
I generally hold the door open for anyone closely behind me or reaching a door in front of me. It is simple respect... Now while driving... no comment ![]()
06-06-2012 03:35 PM
Repo-ed wrote:If they are hot, then yes.
If they are not, then no.
If they are old, then yes.
Finally, someone writes what a thousand others were thinking ![]()
06-07-2012 05:22 AM
Wish I could say I join in this train of thought, but my father always taught me to open doors to the "non-hot" ones as well, because you never knew if they had hot friends they could introduce you to.
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06-10-2012 05:43 AM
FrugalRican wrote:Ever get that one female who said: "I can open my own door."
Doesn't that just make your day?
Frug,
The reply in that situation is:
"Well, I am sure you can. But when someone holds the door open for ME, I usually just say thank you".
That has the double effect of taking the man/woman aspect out of the equation and reducing it to common courtesy as well as reminding them that they were being rude. ![]()
06-10-2012 07:20 AM
crunching_numbers wrote:
FrugalRican wrote:Ever get that one female who said: "I can open my own door."
Doesn't that just make your day?
Frug,
The reply in that situation is:
"Well, I am sure you can. But when someone holds the door open for ME, I usually just say thank you".
That has the double effect of taking the man/woman aspect out of the equation and reducing it to common courtesy as well as reminding them that they were being rude.
+1
06-10-2012 07:40 AM
No one's ever pulled the "I can open my own door!" line, LOL! If faced with the situation, I'd politely explain that being treated like a lady is a good thing and that femininity shouldn't be sacrificed to advance feminism. ![]()

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