ObsessedwithmyFico wrote:Dated a very nice guy...but always (in every conversation) talking about how broke he was.
ObsessedwithmyFico wrote:Asked him about his credit and credit reports, and he told me he didn't care.This is the part that really bothered me. I felt it was like "pay this for me so it doesn't get cut off". Not interested in the rest. If he had said he was concerned...different story.
ObsessedwithmyFico wrote:Dated a very nice guy...but always (in every conversation) talking about how broke he was. "Baby, can you help me with......". Asked him about his credit and credit reports, and he told me he didn't care. End of story. Won't deal with that again.
No care in the world and no guilt for building debt is definitely different from not being able to pay or having no control over spending. It is stealing with intent. The word pathological liar comes to mind. Yea you don't need that. But it is hard to meet people, anybody these days and there are more and more single people out there. Maybe not out there but single yes. I don't know where they hide? Being afraid of being alone can prevent you from meeting someone believe it or not. I don't know why it's so hard to find good people. I lost hope and decided to remain single and just went out for years to have fun and lost all desire to meet anyone. By random chance meeting a new friend on Myspace with no intent of anything something clicked after a while. Dating 4 years now. So like me someone is out there just probably fed up with looking for someone nice. The joke was there are so many pretty faces but deep in side goodness is really hard to find. Nice people yes but a true goodness thats rare. That's what I look for in people. It wasn't until last year that she saw my credit report. I was hiding it.
Message Edited by ilovepizza on 07-14-2008 01:41 AM