I can be a jerk

[fishbjc]

I think most of us realize that good credit can be torn down in a quick second.

All is takes is an illness or a job loss.   Heck, most of us are two paychecks away from trouble.

I enjoy a good troll battle from time to time.   This is such a good place to share while being supportive and positive.  Another board I came across...UGH

[cobra19]

No, you're not the only one.

Good post.

[musikklvr]

Nope, definitely not the only one. I have to have a good talking to to myself sometimes. lol

[Anonymous]

I think that difference of opinion and constructive debate are needful at times.  But emotional upset and argumentative assaults are the problem.

Discussions of various subjects to include many points of view, experiences and information is so helpful.  Angry and argumentative assaults are so unproductive and waseful of time and resources.

Message Edited by txjohn on 08-08-2009 12:31 PM

[Eurosooner7]

A lot of us think that, but I always rationalize it with simply thinking that there is a reason a person is where they are. At one point I was 50k in cc debt and I may have been one of those and that was obvious to any onlooker. What is never obvious is the reason. Business ventures, etc. was my specific case.

So I have some compassion, but only if the person is willing to correct their mistake. Get a 2nd job and get upright again!

 There is a reason behind everything 95% of the time.