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thankfulheart
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Registered: ‎09-26-2011
Re: Why doesn't he get it? Venting.

webhopper wrote:
Wow.... Anyways, you could always force sale of the marital home. You don't want your name on it when he stops paying the bill. Just a suggestion. He probably doesn't need something that big to live in anyways since you and the kids are gone now

Yeah, that's not going to happen.  It's an old family home and is symbiotic with his parents' house next door (they share utilities, long story).  I did just take out a personal loan to pay off the mortgage to help my DTI for my own mortgage app and he signed another agreement with me to pay that off.  Over the eggshell-walking financial discussions of the past month, I have laid out what is his to pay for and he doesn't need to worry about the rest of it. Just shut up and pay your bills, I'll shut up and pay mine.  That seems to be working right now.  We'll see what happens when he's off again this winter...

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