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pizzadude
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Registered: ‎01-28-2010
Re: HOW CAN I STOP FROM DROWNING AT THE HANDS OF MY SOON-TO-BE EX

 

Sorry to read about your difficult situation ~  so is the mortgage in both your names, or just in your name ?  

 

The only way to alleviate your responsibility for the debt is for the house to either be refinanced in his name or to just be sold.    Unfortunately your divorce decree won't alter this.     You can add a statement to your CR but it won't make a difference in your FICO scores.

 

Once the smoke clears you can begin the process of repairing your credit, sending GW letters to your creditors, etc....

March2010 FICO® ~ 695 TU, 653 EQ, 697 EX