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HopefulGardner
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Registered: ‎07-09-2012
Re: Why doesn't he get it? Venting.

+10000 I completely agree that is not a good thing to teach children or even believe yourself. Now given there are nasty people and nasty divorces but you can't live with that kind of perspective. I've only been married two years, but even when we were dating we were always equals, no matter what the circumstances were, this forum so far has been making me so edgy about discussing my happiness in my marriage; how my husband and I share every single thing in our life and truly believe in what's yours is mine in any of my posts because of all the negative emotions towards Joint finances. It's sad that so many people have been burned by joint lives...but I am very happy with mine, and will never change it.

Sorry i'm rambling, but just wanted to express a bit of my thoughts!


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