I trust my SO completely... and if I found out he was hiding trips to casinos, or strip clubs etc, and THEN found a hidden card with bills not coming home, I would wonder where hes hiding his mistress, and what ELSE he's hiding. But ... back on topic.. we have separate finances. He and I discussed it, he knows my hesitation and respects it. we both know what each other has in the bank,what we owe on our cards ( 0 is easy to remember) but we don't have anything joint.
