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Registered: ‎07-25-2008
Re: Hoping I'm not the only bad person out there ...

People do the wrong thing all the time hoping to make whoever they're with happy. Bigger house, newer car, more kids, pets, more spending, etc....  And you know what; 99.9999999% of the time, whoever is doing the asking knows darn well what they're asking is selfish. They're just counting on love, fear of being alone, being whipped, or some other weakness that can be leveraged against common sense to get the yes.


I mean really, does anyone think OP only had to listen to DW prattle on about combining finances once before finally giving in? :smileyhappy:


IMO, OP should honestly say. "The whole combining finances thing doesnt work for me anymore. If you don't like it, tough crap". I disagree with doing the passive-aggressive hiding accounts thing.

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