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Re: Hoping I'm not the only bad person out there ...

Communication, truth and love.  Thats what I learnt was MOST important to me when I got divorced after 12 years of marriage.  You have to be able to communicate with the person you are planning to be with for a life time.  



You must feel some form of guilt for hiding this from her if your seeking advise and validation from people on a message board.  Noone can tell you what is the right or wrong thing to do.  You have to decide that for yourself.  What is are the most important things YOU want to have in your marriage?

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