haulingthescoreup wrote:It can be hard growing up, I guess. Especially if you're a bit scared to take on all the hard work that's involved.
Maybe if she hears that she needs to do some maturing for your relationship to work, she might take it to heart. Maybe she'll dismiss you as a jerk and continue in her ways.
Not much that you can do to change other people, unfortunately.
Whoops! OP, I hope you realize that I wasn't saying that you're a jerk! 
Because you're not; I think you're being very realistic about things that are important in a relationship.
I was trying to say that that's how some people dismiss others who speak uncomfortable truths.
whew...
