y UNstable Fiancee
02-03-2012 05:46 PM
SynnDiesel, I'm honestly not sure if he wants to learn and that's where the stress is coming from for me. It also doesn't help that he's a procrastinator (and I try NOT to nag) and my family as a whole went through financial stress when I was in my last few years of college so one of my primary goals in life is to never be financially unstable again. His laid back approach to financial management worries me about our future together. I also believe that for a couple to be successful this is one item that true partnership isn't an option because if we can't find common ground there will always be friction.
webhopper, I will definitely check out My Total Money Makeover and hope that it's a tool that sheds some light.