OP, I will say this, learn from this and move on. Family is more important than things. If nothing else, I'm sure this was a humbling, life changing experience. Sit back hit the reset button and learn from this. In regards to family and gifts, they should love you in spite of what material items you provided. The time you spend with people is always more valuable than any material gift you can bestow on a person. The holidays is about family, not the material items you provide, we can't take it with us.
