Had to come to a realizatio n tonight.
11-08-2012 04:33 PM
I'm spending way too much money for what I bring in. I actually feel humbled. I remember some oddball poster saying negative things about me here and what was said was not far off from the truth.
I have to settle down and spend what I can afford. My CC debt got up to over 10k.
I have to thank my lucky stars for PSECU, they have never let me down. I was able to get a personal loan to clear half of my CC debt and thankfully the rest is on a 0% card I can make big payments on monthly.
I have this forum to thank, because I realized I grew my credit garden way too fast and got irresponsible with it. This is a lesson learned.
Thank you everyone! ![]()
(And yes, I had to take a HP on EX but this is something that had to happen to get things straight. My butt will be parked in the garden for 2 years, all of my credit aspirations have been reached and they need to age!)
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Starting Score: EX (PLUS) 583 EQ FICO 565 TU FICO 590 3/15/2011 / Goal Scores: 720
Current Score: EX FICO (PSECU) 689 / EQ FICO 659 / TU08 FICO 702 / TU98 FICO 672 / TU VS 711 5/19/2013
Re: Had to come to a realizatio n tonight.
11-08-2012 04:35 PM
ahh don't feel down on yourself.
You just have to use credit responsibly...
I have prob $8k in cc debt, but it's all at 0%, and I get paid on commission+ I have that much in short term investments... so I do a little floating.
Re: Had to come to a realizatio n tonight.
11-08-2012 04:44 PM
Try using zync more and bring lunch or eat home more. You will be fine
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Re: Had to come to a realizatio n tonight.
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11-08-2012 04:49 PM - edited 11-08-2012 04:51 PM
All of my cards except for zync and my debit card stays in an expanding file folder now... so if I am out and about I have to use zync and it makes me question whether I really need that purchase and if I will be able to pay the bill when its due.
When I use amazon card; discover card; or nfcu card it takes a conscience decision plus a few.extra.steps.to actually get the card out to use it.Current Score (myFico + Amex): April 2013 TU 754 EQ 694 EX 694
Wallet: NFCU Visa Sig 25k, Amex Lowes 22k, NavCheck 15k, Amex PRG, Amex Zync, Discover It 13.5k, Amazon Visa 5k
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MyFICO Fitness Goal: 800s Club!
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Re: Had to come to a realizatio n tonight.
11-08-2012 04:51 PM
Starting Score: EQ 551 TU 548 CK 607on 6/8/12, EX 542(AMEX pull 3/4/12)
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Re: Had to come to a realizatio n tonight.
11-08-2012 05:00 PM
LS2982 wrote:I'm spending way too much money for what I bring in. I actually feel humbled. I remember some oddball poster saying negative things about me here and what was said was not far off from the truth.
I have to settle down and spend what I can afford. My CC debt got up to over 10k.
I have to thank my lucky stars for PSECU, they have never let me down. I was able to get a personal loan to clear half of my CC debt and thankfully the rest is on a 0% card I can make big payments on monthly.
I have this forum to thank, because I realized I grew my credit garden way too fast and got irresponsible with it. This is a lesson learned.
Thank you everyone!
(And yes, I had to take a HP on EX but this is something that had to happen to get things straight. My butt will be parked in the garden for 2 years, all of my credit aspirations have been reached and they need to age!)
Hey LS...
Keep your head up...i know what you mean....my DW got laid offabout 2 month ago.....i have about 4700 in cc debt....most of it is 0 %......so i am there with you....
my amex craving has been reached.......
good luck to you.....
BK 7 in 2005.....
Re: Had to come to a realizatio n tonight.
11-08-2012 05:03 PM
I feel for you and im glad you have put the brakes on before it got worse....your smart and will be clear of this debt in no time..... but thank you for sharing this so people can also realize before we end up like we were before most of us found this site.
Re: Had to come to a realizatio n tonight.
11-08-2012 05:04 PM
Re: Had to come to a realizatio n tonight.
11-08-2012 05:08 PM
As a long time lurker, I have pretty much watched your entire ascension. I knew that around the time you obtained your Discover account though, that you would probably end up here. I'm not taking a personal stab, I just know from experience. I have been in your situation before. You get some new toys and before you know it, those toys aren't as appealing anymore. So like any other normal human being, you start pressing for bigger and better things. Just being approved for each new account can be a rush and it's addicting. I think most of us site been in a similar situation before, whether it was credit, a car, or a house. If people say otherwise, then they must be Spock.
It's something to clearly learn from, but nothing that can't be repaired over time. Be smart.
