ng, reading your post brought me to tears. I feel so badly for you. Please do not give up hope. What an unbelievable horror story.

I googled identity theft and found something that MAY be of interest/use to you. I know absolutely nothing about these folks but maybe worth a careful read:

http://www.idtheftcenter.org/

Perhaps they have some resources that may steer you in the right direction.

In the meantime keep coming here and as suggested, read, read, read. You need to know YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

good luck to you.