Booner I completely understand your anger and frustration I really do. In my case I pay 400 something a month support for my oldest daughter. I catch grief from my fiancee now cause we have 2 toddlers both in diapers one still in baby formula + clothing cause they grow like weeds lol I pay more in support then to clothe and feed my 2 toddlers in my house now.  My point is that I pay 400 to my ex who I know really doesnt spend really any of it on our child and instead uses it to pay for her always new Iphone and always manages to get the latest honda accord out. Now if I fast forward the clock and my daughter is ACTUALLY getting the support I would feel way much better.  I really understand your frustration cause I listen to it from my fiancee.