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    <title>topic Re: Our first Family Financial Meeting in Relationships and Money</title>
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    <description>&lt;P&gt;Family financial meeting, great idea.&amp;nbsp; We can't count on the education system.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2020 02:26:42 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>Trudy</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2020-09-22T02:26:42Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Our first Family Financial Meeting</title>
      <link>https://ficoforums.myfico.com/t5/Relationships-and-Money/Our-first-Family-Financial-Meeting/m-p/6133828#M7873</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Last week we got or first&amp;nbsp;Family Financial Meeting. I was a little nervous, because we never did that. We have kids 5-10 years old. We want to give them a good start. I got the ides from Dave Ramsey: the financial peace planner. While there was just a comple of paragraph about it. I took what was there. I did some modifications to it. Here how it look like. I hope it give you ideas to plan such meeting in your family. It's better to discuss about it than to be surprised with problems. I plan to do it once a month. It took a quick 30 min.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;UL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;How often: 1/month (peu être au début).&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Who, everyone above 5 years old.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Have a notebook to take notes.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/UL&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Discussions point (just ideas)&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;UL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Everyone saving goals (even kids).&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Distribution of envelopes: save, spend, give.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Ideas on cutting back on spending. &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;UL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Remind everybody to turn off light and water.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/UL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;What taks to focus on. Everybody acording to their streght.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Listen to a Dave Ramsey CD. &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Openness and honesty. &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Feel free to ask question and admit mistakes.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/UL&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Prqparation&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;(Q=Quicken) Report and graph.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;UL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Pint or have on scree (Q. Planning, Budget)&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Wheel (Q, spending tab)&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;The flow (Q. report, Banking Cash Flow - last month)&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;UL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Show only category&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/UL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Any Credit alert&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/UL&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Routine&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Start with a prayer&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Why we do a family financial meeting.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;To avoid financial problems and bad discussions.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;It's important to know where we are&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;What we did. &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;It's important to know where the money goes. It's call cash flow: inflow + outflow.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Plan for future. Even for things we did not plan for (such as saving). &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Live more secured and more at peace. Because money problems bring a lot of stress and sadness.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Develop good habits for kids in future. Because they will have to deal with money and debt too.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;We do it together so we can grow wealthy or poor together, at least it won't or should not be a surprise.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;The idea is not to get rich, it's to manage our money.&amp;nbsp;&lt;FONT color="#FF0000"&gt;(MOD CUT: TOS prohibits&amp;nbsp;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;FONT color="#FF0000"&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;Discussions including race, nationality, sex, religion, politics. -Jag73 MOD)&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;It is better to desire to be poor than desire to be rich.&amp;nbsp;&lt;FONT color="#FF0000"&gt;(MOD CUT)&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Review family budget&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;How we did.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;What we can do better?&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;What can we change?&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;How much our life cost each month?&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Debt&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;How much debt we have&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;How we are doing&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;What is debt snowball&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;What are the 5 baby steps of Daves Ramsey.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Where we are in the baby steps.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Saving goal &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Short.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Long.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Credit score.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Why it's important to have a great credit score.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;How we are doing. &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;What we can do next to fix it.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;OL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Family project&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Final question/complain.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;What we could do better next time.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;UL&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;We did not listen to any Ramsey cd, maybe we will next month.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;We need to find a note book to keep track of our meetings.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/UL&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;LI&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Closing prayer.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;SPAN&gt;Thanks&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2020 01:09:33 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-09-13T01:09:33Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Our first Family Financial Meeting</title>
      <link>https://ficoforums.myfico.com/t5/Relationships-and-Money/Our-first-Family-Financial-Meeting/m-p/6134014#M7874</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;I think it is great to have the kids start to understand savings at such a young age.&amp;nbsp; I can also see some advantages to the kids knowing the realities of the family situation.&amp;nbsp; As they get older it will become more relatable and hopefully they grow to being responsible with money.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;My wife and I do our own version of "meetings" twice a month when we work on the bills, review our accounts.&amp;nbsp; Less formal for sure but it works for us.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Good luck with your goals, Ramsey is a little too on the conservative side of budgeting for me but I have listened to his show and certain aspects I agree with.&amp;nbsp; He is a little dated on certain ideas, IMHO.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2020 04:30:34 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>sxa001</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-09-13T04:30:34Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Our first Family Financial Meeting</title>
      <link>https://ficoforums.myfico.com/t5/Relationships-and-Money/Our-first-Family-Financial-Meeting/m-p/6134321#M7875</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Including the kids in family finances is a good idea. They learn best at home hopefully.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2020 18:04:47 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://ficoforums.myfico.com/t5/Relationships-and-Money/Our-first-Family-Financial-Meeting/m-p/6134321#M7875</guid>
      <dc:creator>Save-n-Invest</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-09-13T18:04:47Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Our first Family Financial Meeting</title>
      <link>https://ficoforums.myfico.com/t5/Relationships-and-Money/Our-first-Family-Financial-Meeting/m-p/6142118#M7893</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Family financial meeting, great idea.&amp;nbsp; We can't count on the education system.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2020 02:26:42 GMT</pubDate>
      <guid>https://ficoforums.myfico.com/t5/Relationships-and-Money/Our-first-Family-Financial-Meeting/m-p/6142118#M7893</guid>
      <dc:creator>Trudy</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2020-09-22T02:26:42Z</dc:date>
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