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Scupra
Super Contributor

Re: So sad I could just cry...

Don't get down on yourself! You got this, it just takes a little blood, sweat and time haha! There is a lot of us here to help. Good luck and keep your head up!

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gdale6
Moderator Emeritus

Re: So sad I could just cry...


@tham928 wrote:

Hi everyone, I was discharged from ch 7 on Feb 3, 2014. My current fico score per myfico.com scorewatch is 557. I burned 1 capital one card in bk. I've applied for a credit one card and capital one with no luck. Now the upside I guess is that my bank gives credit builder loans ( They fund a savings account with 1,000.00 and I make payments for 1 year and then I get the 1000.00). I'm going to start that to have at least some thing showing up. Everything is reporting correctly on my credit report but I just don't know what else to do. I have read the bk to 700 but it seems that there are mixed opinions  about secured cards. It's all just so disheartening.


Congrats on your discharge. I would forget about Cap-1 for a few years as you IIB them but they will not hold it against you forever. BofA has a graduating secured card and there are also national CUs that I would try to get into and develop relationships with (NFCU if you qualify is a great one post BK, DCU, SDFCU) and the list goes on. I would not apply for any further cards until you obtain all 3 hard copies of your reports thru the mail and confirm all your accounts are reporting IIB, it dies a world of wonder to get your ducks in a row first, and I am serious about copies by mail, do not use online delivery they do not show you the whole picture...

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tham928
Established Member

Re: So sad I could just cry...

Thank you all so very much for your kind words. I'm going to get my hard copies and COMB through

 You're all so very sweet

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ezdriver
Senior Contributor

Re: So sad I could just cry...


@tham928 wrote:

Thank you all so very much for your kind words. I'm going to get my hard copies and COMB through

 You're all so very sweet


Awwwwhhhhh shucks ... now I feel like crying! Just kidding ... hope you're feeling better. Focus your mind and energy on the things you have to do to rebuild. Get made ... not sad! 

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SoulMaster
Established Contributor

Re: So sad I could just cry...


@ezdriver wrote:

@tham928 wrote:

Thank you all so very much for your kind words. I'm going to get my hard copies and COMB through

 You're all so very sweet


Awwwwhhhhh shucks ... now I feel like crying! Just kidding ... hope you're feeling better. Focus your mind and energy on the things you have to do to rebuild. Get made ... not sad! 


Ez - 

 

If OP could get made, s/he wouldn't have this problem at all.  The mafia take care of their own!

 

-SM

 

LOVE that typo!

I am not an attorney and none of what I write should be construed as legal advice. For legal advice please consult an attorney.

Starting Score: ~470 preBK(8/2010)
Current Scores as of Late January 2016 All 700+. Last CR pull from a lender(housing) was mid-score 749.
Goal Score: 700+ - reached.
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lizz01
Valued Member

Re: So sad I could just cry...

I just wanted to add my comment of support too! Don't get discouraged. There is hope on the horizon. Smiley Happy
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ezdriver
Senior Contributor

Re: So sad I could just cry...


@SoulMaster wrote:

@ezdriver wrote:

@tham928 wrote:

Thank you all so very much for your kind words. I'm going to get my hard copies and COMB through

 You're all so very sweet


Awwwwhhhhh shucks ... now I feel like crying! Just kidding ... hope you're feeling better. Focus your mind and energy on the things you have to do to rebuild. Get made ... not sad! 


Ez - 

 

If OP could get made, s/he wouldn't have this problem at all.  The mafia take care of their own!

 

-SM

 

LOVE that typo!


Ha ha ... that was funny! Amazing what results occur when fingers and brain get out of sync.

 

I texted a client yesterday this: "The lender will be expecting your wife's hours worked in pasties.". Of course I meant to type "paystubs". The husband texted back that he had a good laugh when he saw my message. What would be be like without a sense of humor huh?

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