First of all, I'm sorry for your Aunt's passing. It's never easy losing someone we love and care about dearly.
Secondly, congratulations for your new CL! These are exciting times for you. May you have many more success stories to share with us all in the future!
I must admit, when I read your initial post, I felt the same way most people who initially responded felt. But, as you added more detailed information about the circumstances that lead to your financial situation AND your feelings regarding NFCU, I began to see that you truely want to take care of Navy Federal and do right by them because they have taken care of you. But since those details were left out of your original post, I understand why people initially responded the way that they did AND why you reacted the way you did.
It seems toward the end of the posts, misunderstandings were cleared and that is always a good thing. 
I don't think anyone on this forum wants anybody to fail because as many have already said - most of us have been there and done that. The past is the past. The future is unknown. We can only now live in the present and look toward the future.
The credit rebuild forum is so freakin' awesome! Those people have a wealth of knowledge that will help you rebuild your credit in a very methodical way. Fair warning, There are some tough people there that don't mince words. I only say this because you said you were very sensitive. Just know nothing is personal. They are very serious about helping people build their credit - which is a good thing. And will give you step by step instructions in what to tackle first and how to go about tackling it. They do know what they are talking about when it comes to cleaning up a CR! They have help me tremendously as well as many, many others. I hope you will glean from their vast knowledge.
Lastly, you mentioned that the admin removed the scriptures from your story. It seems to me that this site's policy is to try to keep the conversations focused on credit and the like. As such, they OFTEN remove references to many controversial subjects like religion and politics (to name a couple). It has been my observation that they will consistently remove such references. It's not personal, but just a way to keep the topics on point.
Good luck to your credit journey. May your credit future be bright!
Happy Rebuilding!