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The login is still only yours and only you would have access to the account unless you gave the AU access to your login and password. I have never heard of an AU geting their own login because they bear zero responsibility on the account. When looking at charges, NFCU should differentiate between what charges came from which card but I can't tell you for sure since I have no experience dealing with them.