@Anonymous, it is wonderful to read your post. I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to respond to you before your thread was closed last evening. You are a holiday miracle and one of the most inspiring people I've ever met IRL or out here in the ether.
Thanks for the update. I hope you continue to drop in and participate. Did you ever get that steak dinner? If you ever get by my way I'm taking your to the best steak house in town. 
Warmest regards, my friend.