You know many lenders have different abilities thru Technology. While multiple stmts to different borrowers is not normal it doesn’t cost anything to ask.
As a Co-Borrower you are wise to be concerned. In my 30 yrs of lending and underwriting I can’t tell you how many co-signers got completely screwed. Word of advice is to watch it monthly and Never let the acct be more than 25 days late! At 30 days past due it WILL begin to destroy your credit. Better yet you make the pmt and have the borrower pay you. Being a co-Signer is a uncomfortable place to be. The lender won’t usually reach out to you until the loan is very delinquent. Enough said, watch it closely and establish online access.