You and me both. I had a repo (but redeemed) and it is/was a pain in the butt to deal with. I still have up to 13 lates on my CR because of that.
Unless you have all the $$$, then I'd wait. If SOL hasn't expired, contacting them in any way would likely lead to a lawsuit.
You cannot DV an OC (Americredit) only CAs who are collecting on it (but I would wait until SOL expires if CAs are involved).
1) Per SOL, each state law varies. Here's the link for SOLs by state:
I'm no attorney, but I'd hazard a guess and say that the car note was written, or 10 years. So, you'd have to wait until 2014 to breathe easier. However, this will fall off your reports 3 years before that time. SOL tolling can vary by state, but it was 10 yrs for both IL and IN.
2) IMO, written.
3) Can't speak to divorce. I'd consult an attorney. Legally, both of you are responsible for it (equally?).
4) Someone in here was recently served for an Americredit repo. Look around. It was recent.
Just start saving. $7800 could be worse.