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Anonymous
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Re: No Patience!!!

Wonderin' you're also a rock star and dont let anybody tell you different!!  Your posts are so inspiring and even when you're giving somebody else the "nudge" they need, I get one, too ~ THANK YOU!!!
Message 11 of 31
NikJ4
Established Contributor

Re: No Patience!!!

Wonderin.... Here is the pretty pic of what i have going on. I hope you will have some good advice for me. I live in TX so SOL is 4 yrs.
 

CA                            Creditor                     DODel.
1. Palisades             Best Buy                       12/2012 - unpaid ( charge off now in collections)
2. n/a                        Plains Commerce         9/2014  - unpaid (just charged off/not in collections)
3. Capital Accts        Dentist bill                      4/2014  - unpaid
4. RJM                      Wachovia                      1/2012 - unpaid
5. Midland                 Newport News              5/2010 - unpaid  ( charge off now in collections)
6. NCO                     BofA (old checking)      9/2013 - unpaid
7. NCO                     BofA (old checking)      10/2013 - unpaid
8. CMI                      Time Warner               8/2014 - unpaid
9. Superior Mgmt     TMobile                        10/2012 - unpaid
10. Wst Assts Mgmt  Methodist Hosp         3/2012 - unpaid
11. Prem Assets         Emergency Room          1/2012 - unpaid
12. NCO                  Direct TV                       3/2009 - unpaid
13. NCO                  Sprint PCS                     6/2013 - paid (my current cell phone provider)
14. Diversified           Kelsey Seybold            12/2008 - paid
15. unknown              First Premier               3/2009 - unpaid ( charge off not sure what happened to this but comes off next spring)
16.    -                        Star Furniture               7/2011 - paid (lates)
17.    -                        St of Tx Stud Ln                ?           - paid (lates)
18. Sallie Mae           (current loan)             4/1012  - in deferement ( had a late before got back into deferment)
19. unknown                med collection            ?          - paid
20.    -                             Ashton Park Apt          2009     - paid
21. Wst Assts Mgmt  Wst Houston Med            ?            - unpaid
22.    -                        Orchard Bnk                     6/2013  - lates (current acct)
23.    -                         First premier                  12/2014 - lates (currnt acct)
24.     -                          Countrywide                 5/2014   - lates (mortgage)  on a workout plan to get current by year end but should have by 10/2008
25.      -                            Conns                            ?? - closed lates paid in full
26.    -                                 IBC                             ?? - closed lates paid in full ( old auto loan)
27.   -                                Cap 1 Auto                 2014         -  currnt auto ( 2 lates)
28. Sallie mae              (converted old acct)         3/2009    - transferred to new acct
29.                                 Startrust CU -                      4/2011  - 1 late
 
I hope you now see why I have a headache most of the time. This is so frustrating for me.
 
Thanks everyone for the words of encouragement but I am just worn out. I really do appreciate it. I hope to come back focused and with a vengance to attack this mess I got myself in. Much love, God Bless and Good Night!


Message Edited by NikJ4 on 08-05-2008 01:40 AM
Message 12 of 31
Anonymous
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Re: No Patience!!!

Nik,
 
You've already accomplished a LOT just by coming here, learning all you can and, most of all, deciding it's time to take back control of your credit!
 
Now that you've got it all on a spreadsheet, take a step back, breathe a little and get a fresh perspective on things.  You've been working yourself like a dog on this for the past couple of weeks and IT'S TIME for a break ~ without an ounce of guilt or second thought about it for a few days!!
 
When you've cleared your head some and are ready to come back, we'll all be here, as will this thread, with lots of replies and the great advice we're so accustomed to, okay?
 
No condemnation, girlfriend, just time for a change, so take your finger OFF the @$$-kicking button, print out the replies up there ^^^  from Wonderin', post them on the wall, on your dashboard...wherever you need to in order to read her words of encouragement.
 
Your "fico family" will be here and will miss you while you're on hiatus.
Message 13 of 31
Anonymous
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Re: No Patience!!!



NikJ4 wrote:
Wonderin.... Here is the pretty pic of what i have going on. I hope you will have some good advice for me. I live in TX so SOL is 4 yrs.
 

CA                            Creditor                     DODel.
1. Palisades             Best Buy                       12/2012 - unpaid ( charge off now in collections)
2. n/a                        Plains Commerce         9/2014  - unpaid (just charged off/not in collections)
3. Capital Accts        Dentist bill                      4/2014  - unpaid
4. RJM                      Wachovia                      1/2012 - unpaid
5. Midland                 Newport News              5/2010 - unpaid  ( charge off now in collections)
6. NCO                     BofA (old checking)      9/2013 - unpaid
7. NCO                     BofA (old checking)      10/2013 - unpaid
8. CMI                      Time Warner               8/2014 - unpaid
9. Superior Mgmt     TMobile                        10/2012 - unpaid
10. Wst Assts Mgmt  Methodist Hosp         3/2012 - unpaid
11. Prem Assets         Emergency Room          1/2012 - unpaid
12. NCO                  Direct TV                       3/2009 - unpaid
13. NCO                  Sprint PCS                     6/2013 - paid (my current cell phone provider)
14. Diversified           Kelsey Seybold            12/2008 - paid
15. unknown              First Premier               3/2009 - unpaid ( charge off not sure what happened to this but comes off next spring)
16.    -                        Star Furniture               7/2011 - paid (lates)
17.    -                        St of Tx Stud Ln                ?           - paid (lates)
18. Sallie Mae           (current loan)             4/1012  - in deferement ( had a late before got back into deferment)
19. unknown                med collection            ?          - paid
20.    -                             Ashton Park Apt          2009     - paid
21. Wst Assts Mgmt  Wst Houston Med            ?            - unpaid
22.    -                        Orchard Bnk                     6/2013  - lates (current acct)
23.    -                         First premier                  12/2014 - lates (currnt acct)
24.     -                          Countrywide                 5/2014   - lates (mortgage)  on a workout plan to get current by year end but should have by 10/2008
25.      -                            Conns                            ?? - closed lates paid in full
26.    -                                 IBC                             ?? - closed lates paid in full ( old auto loan)
27.   -                                Cap 1 Auto                 2014         -  currnt auto ( 2 lates)
28. Sallie mae              (converted old acct)         3/2009    - transferred to new acct
29.                                 Startrust CU -                      4/2011  - 1 late
 
I hope you now see why I have a headache most of the time. This is so frustrating for me.
 
Thanks everyone for the words of encouragement but I am just worn out. I really do appreciate it. I hope to come back focused and with a vengance to attack this mess I got myself in. Much love, God Bless and Good Night!


Message Edited by NikJ4 on 08-05-2008 01:40 AM

Nik, since you helped me in a tremendous way...I will offer the same to you.  It is no big deal for me to help you clean up some of those baddies.  I will call you after 6pm today so that we could go over the strategy.  Your goals WILL be obtained by the deadline you set because I WONT let you give up!  Now pick that head up and hold it up highSmiley Wink
Message 14 of 31
NikJ4
Established Contributor

Re: No Patience!!!

ok, i am back. I started the new job today. That let's me know that i am on the way to recovery. I just need that 2nd paycheck. (first one already spent). I have lots to do but I am starting so that is half the battle for me. No more crying or whining about it.
Will check back in later to share the updates as they come in.
 
Message 15 of 31
haulingthescoreup
Moderator Emerita

Re: No Patience!!!

Great plan to go for NP or PA! We have a lot of them working in the VA, and they are often very independent. We bill in their own names and everything. They make great salaries, too.

Hang in there, and don't try to look too far ahead or at everything at once. You know where you are now, you know where you want to be, pick out that path you're going to use, and think baby steps, baby steps. You'll be surprised how momentum will start building, and pick you up and carry you along. Time will take care of a lot of this junk, too.

Hang in there! We're all rooting for you!
* Credit is a wonderful servant, but a terrible master. * Who's the boss --you or your credit?
FICO's: EQ 781 - TU 793 - EX 779 (from PSECU) - Done credit hunting; having fun with credit gardening. - EQ 590 on 5/14/2007
Message 16 of 31
NikJ4
Established Contributor

Re: No Patience!!!

thanks a bunch, will do.
Message 17 of 31
NikJ4
Established Contributor

Re: No Patience!!!

update....TODAY WAS THE DAY!!!
I sent out not 1, not 2 but 7 DV letters to my creditors. I started my new job and one of the perks is we have a post office on site. Well, on top of that we have access to use our badge to pay for stuff and it is charged against our paycheck. Almost like debit but dont loose your mind type of thing. I was able to send them and just charge it against my check which would have been what i would have done in another week. i wanted to get a head start. I am going to work on PFD's and GW the remainder of the week. I just want to get started. I am so super hyped. Lets hope it stays this way.
Message 18 of 31
Anonymous
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Re: No Patience!!!

First off, Nik, congrats on the new job!! Yay!! You really sound like you're enjoying it!! Smiley Happy

Second, as re your list of uglies, you have 5 medicals that you should get to preHIPAAing. If you send the preHIPAAs to the CRAs NOW, then by the time you hear back from them, you should have the cash to pay'em off. That is, of course, assuming that the OCs can be reached or haven't lost your accounts!!

Third, can you try to re-open the Plains account? Or have you already tried that? I know next to nothing about Plains!!

Fourth, if you can pay it off, get your patootie on the phone and call Wacky (my pet name for Wachovia) and see if you can pay THEM. DH had a CC with First Union (whom Wacky bought out YEARS ago) that went south, and Wacky let us pay it off roughly 6 years later. Wacky doesn't seem to SELL debts. They seem to just assign them.

Was it with Wacky itself or one of the banks Wacky's bought out over the years??

Hoping to hear from you soon!! I'm always open to PMs ... so you have no excuse not to PM me if you need to vent!!!

{{{{{{{{{{{Hugs!!!}}}}}}}}}
Message 19 of 31
Anonymous
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Re: No Patience!!!



@Anonymous wrote:
Wonderin' you're also a rock star and dont let anybody tell you different!!  Your posts are so inspiring and even when you're giving somebody else the "nudge" they need, I get one, too ~ THANK YOU!!!





Are you kidding me, Whatz?? I have been feeling really crappy this past week and every time I find myself feeling lower than a doodlebug trapped under a pile of doggie doody, you somehow seem to pop up and PM me -- making me feel oodles better!!

'Specially the PMs about He-Who-We-Shall-Not-Name. Priceless!!!! Smiley Very Happy
Message 20 of 31
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