@Anonymous wrote:
and Wonderin' would DEFINITELY be one of the "several others" I was referring to! What I should have said "one of the resident rock stars will be along shortly to give you some words of wisdom"
Girl, you're being far too kind!! Knowing the process, ESPECIALLY when it comes to the HIPAA stuff, is a far cry from knowing the "whys," "hows," and "what-fers!"
I do know the court/legal stuff, though, when it comes to such things like Orders, Vacations, Releases, etc. Don't ask me how. Or "who!"
I can't stress ENOUGH how the OP should take that poophead back to court, though. If the Order's part of a "child support" order, too, THAT will make it all the more WICKED on his patootie.
She should also know that in many states, that little piece of paper is enough to *BLEEP* him over in terms of wage garnishments and account levies. If she takes that slip o'paper into her local Child Support Enforcement office (even if there's no "money" ordered), she can have him royally spanked THAT way, too!!
Another ugly TL on his report ... since CSEA DOES report to the 3. It comes up as a "Public Record" or "Judgment" and stays on for 7 years -- regardless of whether or not he pays it off.
(Of course, the judgment thing is only, AFAIK, for monetary support, not just healthcare)
I wouldn't even be trash-talking him this much if he didn't have his new wife call the hospital pretending to be the OP -- that's just .... sleazey.