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Feel bad for my bf

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Feel bad for my bf

I was recently approved for a 16k usbank card. My bf has better cards from better lenders like American Express.

He thought since I was approved for 16k, then he would easily get the platinum card to cover his 3k balance transfer and he was only approved for 800. He just called and when they told him the limit, he asked for 5k so they will go back and review it. Supposedly the computer just gave him 800.

Just feel bad for him and I feel bad using my card now to meet my bonus because he keeps rolling his eyes and complaining when I use mine to pay for things.

I was surprised he only got 800 since he has an SPG, American Express platinum and nice chase cards. My nicest cards are my Dividend and Discover. Lol
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Re: Feel bad for my bf

I think the term "better" is in the eye of the beholder.  US Bank frequently hands out low limits(particularly if you are not a customer).  I can't tell you how many threads that I have read where people have received the Cash+ card with a $500 limit.  That is regardless of how much you make.  Usually a call generates positive reconsiderations on the low limits.

 

You didn't mention your BF's scores or current UTI.  This could be a factor as well.  Depending on the credit limit where the $3k is coming from, putting 3k on a 5k card will move your scores in the wrong direction.  I would have asked for $12k ......or $16.1k just so my limit will be higher than yours Smiley LOL

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Re: Feel bad for my bf

 

     @Rachel9 wrote:
I was recently approved for a 16k usbank card. My bf has better cards from better lenders like American Express.

He thought since I was approved for 16k, then he would easily get the platinum card to cover his 3k balance transfer and he was only approved for 800. He just called and when they told him the limit, he asked for 5k so they will go back and review it. Supposedly the computer just gave him 800.

Just feel bad for him and I feel bad using my card now to meet my bonus because he keeps rolling his eyes and complaining when I use mine to pay for things.

I was surprised he only got 800 since he has an SPG, American Express platinum and nice chase cards. My nicest cards are my Dividend and Discover. Lol


Welcome @Rachel9!  As the post above noted, there could be so many different possible reasons as to why this happened.  Without knowing the details of your boyfriend's profile vs yours, it would be hard to gauge.  There is also the "YMMV" (your mileage may vary) part of this that could be a factor.  Each profile and application are different.  Then, enter in a computer brain that generates its own info and all kinds of results can occur.  I don't think you should feel bad though.  Seriously, for all you know the computer erroneously gave you that Credit Limit lol. Don't be hard on yourself.  

                               

Total Credit: $240,100Credit Utilization: 1%AAoA: 5 years, 7 monthsInstallments: Car Lease, Marcus LoanNegatives: 0

LOWES-35k | BOA-32.5k | AMEX-30k | DISC-27.1k | ALLIANT-25k | NFCU-25k | BARC-15k | BBUY-12k | CHASE-10k | WAL-10k | CITI-9.7k | PENFED-9.7k


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I totally feel your situation and your bf's. The stars have to align at times and what just dawned on me was no one knows us/You/Him and our intent with credit. Most importantly our character... We're good people trying to make ends meet, taking care of family etc... In the old days, they knew you and your family by name and the banker worked with you to understand the situation. Nowadays, we're all just a bunch of numbers trying to meet the closest hash marks for risk managers to assess your risk and their returns... Welcome Aboard myFICO! Smiley Happy BTW Congrats on your Approval!








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Credit can be a mysterious thing. Well, congrats on both of the approvals any, fingers crossed that his will grow Smiley Happy
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@Rachel9 wrote:


Just feel bad for him and I feel bad using my card now to meet my bonus because he keeps rolling his eyes and complaining when I use mine to pay for things.


Pull the new credit card out with style, spin dance move and swipe, blow the smoke off the "barrel", and holster the card safely back in your wallet... just to rub it in


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